Are you successful with women in the west ?

[Farangkie]

This video just about sums up the mindset of women in the West.

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Edited October 12, 2023 by Farangkie

[shadscat]

On 12/10/2023 at 06:56, bambyfuckrr said:

Good post!

In my view it is still about the money. It's just not enough to have a successful career and a descent pension in the West. No you need to have and maintain a millionaire's lifestyle over a longer-term and not just a couple of holidays. You need a multimillion house a number of expensive cars, some descent yacht in the Mediterranean, a couple of holiday houses,... I don't think that €10M in your account would do it. That's the kind of success you need in the west to get the younger women.

I have a good friend ( mid 50s )  in London who bags young gold diggers from tinder and bumble, he looks decent in his pics and is in decent shape for his age, does splash for fancy restaurants and hotel rooms for overnights. Claims it's soo easy he won't join me in TH ( salary wise he's on 150k in an IT banking roll )

[nourishing lotion]

3 minutes ago, shadscat said:

I have a good friend ( mid 50s )  in London who bags young gold diggers from tinder and bumble, he looks decent in his pics and is in decent shape for his age, does splash for fancy restaurants and hotel rooms for overnights. Claims it's soo easy he won't join me in TH ( salary wise he's on 150k in an IT banking roll )

Rolling in cash and fucking for free?

[bambyfuckrr]

10 hours ago, shadscat said:

I have a good friend ( mid 50s )  in London who bags young gold diggers from tinder and bumble, he looks decent in his pics and is in decent shape for his age, does splash for fancy restaurants and hotel rooms for overnights. Claims it's soo easy he won't join me in TH ( salary wise he's on 150k in an IT banking roll )

Kudos!!! Your friend plays the game well!

[smurf7]

15 hours ago, shadscat said:

does splash for fancy restaurants and hotel rooms for overnights. 

15 hours ago, nourishing lotion said:

Rolling in cash and fucking for free?

"Free". 

[LASportsNut]

15 hours ago, shadscat said:

I have a good friend ( mid 50s )  in London who bags young gold diggers from tinder and bumble, he looks decent in his pics and is in decent shape for his age, does splash for fancy restaurants and hotel rooms for overnights. Claims it's soo easy he won't join me in TH ( salary wise he's on 150k in an IT banking roll )

Good for you friend.

However, this backs up my opinion, nothing is for free.

Fancy restaurants and hotel rooms that back that up are not cheap.

I would venture to say each girl he is bedding is costing him $250-600 a shag.

And that is if he only needs to take them out one time, which is usually unheard of.

F that. I will take Thailand over that any day.

Edited October 14, 2023 by LASportsNut

[amphis]

Not very, just enough to develop trust issues and realize I'm better off paying them to leave 😂

[Maxbest]

Hmmm, interesting thread.  Did well, when younger, but divorced in 50s, nah, tried dating apps, but always seemed a mismatch.  And make no mistake, hypergamy dies hard in women, despite their age.  Work alongside women, 50s plus, and they are angry.  No takers.   Me, better off P4P here in Sydney, friends, family, interests, finances all for the good without some unhappy relationship to suck the life out of your soul.  Plus getting to LOS when possible also helps.  As others have alluded to, there aint no such thing as "free".....

Edited October 27, 2023 by Maxbest

[quietguy76]

I do good with women in the west when I court, but I'm too driven and hate wasting my resources when it won't go anywhere or they come off as too hypergamous. Late 30s and still have a few goals I wanna hit and Im happy with that. Yea it gets lonely at times but i find things to do with my time. No kids, no divorce, no old lady, just living life and being at peace!

[quietguy76]

On 24/10/2023 at 13:15, amphis said:

Not very, just enough to develop trust issues and realize I'm better off paying them to leave 😂

Pshhh sooo true! I really got like this in my 20's when I actually worked up and had stuff to lose. Cheers

[Bebenee]

I am fairly succesful, but just cant be arsed anymore. Dont want the typical life which is why i am going this route here

[ChillTropic]

ive had several relationships no problem. Had plenty of fun times and experiences. Im at a point in my life where im 100% focused on my own desires and what i want to do so i have no reason to seek out a traditional relationship anymore. I want to do what i want when i want and that freedom is extremely important to me at the moment.

[schnytzal]

On 23/07/2017 at 14:31, John1001 said:

From reading posts and submissions it seems most of you are successful with women so why come to Pattaya ? Yellow Fever ? It's easy ? You're lying ?

did well enough with women in the west. i moved to Thailand for a work project--completely random thing that just crossed my path--and up starting a small company, so I reckon i'm stayin.

i like "easy". also, part of why i like paying for sex is you pay them to go away. been married once, here, and almost a 2nd time. if you like 'good girls' and 'real relationships' you can punch well above your weight here. downside is you'll have to deal with her family lol

[dxmonger]

Sadly no, I'm on the shorter side at 5'7" plus im always working so theres just no time for dates and building a potential relationship. I can get hook ups but nothing ever serious. although from what it seems like, getting married nowadays seems to never really work out. every older guy i talk to say to never do it lmao or get kids 

[qwertyasdzxc]

I am not good but not bad, had few girlfriends and few fwb. I cant say my count is low but u know more is always better

[xgrummix]

I'm 39 and never had problems getting any from extremely good looking girls here in South TX. The problem is they are all braindead and or brainwashed. There seems to have been a switch in the female psych around 2012 that drastically changed almost all of them.

Shortly after the smartphone really took off I suppose.

Western woman are not worth the time, money or effort to me anymore.

Why jump through all those hoops when you can catch a flight and fuck models for a few grand total?

Fuck that

[KanoMike]

10 hours ago, xgrummix said:

I'm 39 and never had problems getting any from extremely good looking girls here in South TX. The problem is they are all braindead and or brainwashed. There seems to have been a switch in the female psych around 2012 that drastically changed almost all of them.

Shortly after the smartphone really took off I suppose.

Western woman are not worth the time, money or effort to me anymore.

Why jump through all those hoops when you can catch a flight and fuck models for a few grand total?

Fuck that

Models in Thailand?? Please point me to them. Been going for 25 years and have seen very few models.

[Bennieben]

yes but aging while mongering make things difficults. girls ask questions about the trip and going for older women after so many years of fucking girsl who are a few decade younger then me create a mindfuck when i am with a woman of the same age then me. its impossible for the common woman to compete with the body of a 20 years old girl.

[KanoMike]

I have no problem with white women. Never have. Been married to one for 35 years. It has been more than 7 years since I have been with an Asian girl under 35 years old. When they are on all 4's, ass up, they pretty much look the same to me.

[Jinxedlad]

Have been with women from most races, including Persian. All of them were college grads with good jobs. My conclusion is that in the modern world, a man is just a redundancy for an educated well-earning woman. And being a boyfriend or a husband is like a chore of a jester in the circus. Some of my wealthy friends and acquaintances are married but they know that their wives are with them for the sake of lifestyle, status, and security. Some have rescued women from the Philippines Ukraine Moldova from poverty. Very few of them are grateful to the men who have rescued them, many of them moved to greener pastures. Thankfully, I never married and never reproduced. My take is that, take money out of the table, a man has nothing to offer to a woman. Take sex, youth, and beauty out of the table, a woman has nothing to offer to a man.

[George1234]

2 hours ago, Jinxedlad said:

My take is that, take money out of the table, a man has nothing to offer to a woman. Take sex, youth, and beauty out of the table, a woman has nothing to offer to a man.

For some men and women that is the world they inhabit. For other people there is something else. 

[KingOfTheRing]

No I'm not nor do I want to be. 

Besides PlayStation my life includes getting in a $135000 truck everyday to go to work and one of my good friends is helping me get back in shape at the gym.

I prefer my life pre war in Kyiv and even post war. I have financial opportunities in USA and it's the only reason I'm here now. Life there was great my friends are music promoters DJs and club owners and stuff I won't mention. Nothing US has to offer besides major cities will impress me and I'm ok with that because I'm not connected here and can't afford to play in these markets financially.

I am hoarding cash and literally dress in Carhartt and sweatpants and eat cheap. My plan is to buy retail space overseas in Eastern Europe in a couple of years. 

I own a small trucking business so the truck  ia making me $2000 a day before expenses and it was the only justifiable splurge. 

I don't want to be cool or known in USA. I keep close with my contacts in Eastern Europe checking up on them joking etc. 

If I meet someone GREAT but I don't date outside of the community because my standards are so high and I am very political..  I've banged so many hot slav girls I forget the faces of solid 8+ girls from 2020 on sometimes. I had a longtime girlfriend in Kyiv who's the love of my life and it got ugly after living together a year so I'm not looking for love here..

I'm in my mid thirties and I prefer to focus on my business and personal passions. 

I'm sure a lot of guys here have experienced similar things in Thailand and by proxy see US as a money printer with nostalgic foods experiences etc. and nothing else. 

 

 

Edited April 23 by KingOfTheRing

[teler]

On 18/04/2024 at 11:28, Jinxedlad said:

Thankfully, I never married and never reproduced. My take is that, take money out of the table, a man has nothing to offer to a woman. Take sex, youth, and beauty out of the table, a woman has nothing to offer to a man.

I'm starting to think that too. But because I'm starting to realize I don't really want to have kids.

If you want kids, it's still something that a woman can offer you. Making a beautiful family.

As for the topic, I'm averagely successful with woman in the west if I make the efforts. But as I don't want a serious relationship right now I don't see the point in making efforts just to fuck a girl once or twice.

 

[momo5]

6 hours ago, teler said:

I'm starting to think that too. But because I'm starting to realize I don't really want to have kids.

If you want kids, it's still something that a woman can offer you. Making a beautiful family.

As for the topic, I'm averagely successful with woman in the west if I make the efforts. But as I don't want a serious relationship right now I don't see the point in making efforts just to fuck a girl once or twice.

 

You need her to make the kids, but not necessarily to raise them. In my case, it was better the mama went away and hiring a live in nanny was better rearing and must more cost effective. 

[elperro]

I was never any good at the nightclub pickup thing - too tongue tied talking to any girls I didn't know. However I met my wife of 40+ years in a bar when I hit on her girlfriend. I crashed and burned with the friend but my wife who at the time was freshly divorced thought I was a pro golfer since I was talking golf and the PGA was in town that week. So maybe the initial meet was a case of gold digging. I am a bit clueless when women are giving me hints so I have missed several opportunities over the years only realizing they were interested a week or two too late. I didn't have much success online either. I would send many ladies quite long individually crafted intro messages of several paragraphs and get about a 1% response mostly from desperate fuglies who I was not too proud to fuck. Now I am too lazy to even make an effort and just enjoy porn and webcams when at home since after 40 years married life is only token sex once or twice a year.