Anyone interested in normal girls?

[yvrgoodtimes]

kuffki - Gotta ask, what business did you start when you were 21? How much did it sell for? What business do you own over there? You luck devil!

[oldie]

Most won't speak English. Most will want multiple dates with friends (chaperones) which gets expensive. Once you've broken down that barrier, you still have to wine and dine them. Once it get's intimate (it) means you'll be sponsoring her whole family. Either way you're gonna pay for it.

 

... The BG's were fun, relaxed, could dance, could speak some english, were great in bed, and stayed as long as you wanted them to. ... You pay them and tell them thank you, they leave, and you carry on with your vacation. Way less stress, way cheaper

 

Spot on, yvrgoodtimes.

 

Gail:

I prefer to pay for it, because paying for it is so much cheaper.

[saxondale]

Gail should have used the search engine...

 

I've been with "normal" girls and did a bit of P4P, both have their pros and cons.

 

Meeting girls in Thailand as a tourist who is here for a couple of weeks/months is VERY difficult unless you have a family connection of course ;)

Edited April 15, 2010 by saxondale

[kuffki]

kuffki - Gotta ask, what business did you start when you were 21? How much did it sell for? What business do you own over there? You luck devil!

 

Gentleman never tells-lol, so in my case this would not be a problem

 

I had security/consulting company which later also started to provide anti-terrorism training as well. Total number of employees-155.

Did not sell it for enough money.

Here doing totally different business that does not make nearly enough to brag about it.

[Anokanite]

My maid once told me that she came to Pattaya to find a farang, but she not pretty enough. That was why she was being a maid. Barber shops are good if you like one you can go back several times, manicure hands, next toes, another time hair. but like the song says "If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, make a fat woman your wife." What do you really want?

[Edge]

My first take on the OP was Troll Post - move on - but you're all still answering.

 

I thought there was some spite in there, as someone has noted, more in keeping with a woman scorned.

 

Gail - unusual name for a Brit' male - I note that no gender is shown in the profile.

 

Do we have a feminazi in our midst?

[Soi Six Snatch Sniffer]

My first take on the OP was Troll Post - move on - but you're all still answering.

 

I thought there was some spite in there, as someone has noted, more in keeping with a woman scorned.

 

Gail - unusual name for a Brit' male - I note that no gender is shown in the profile.

 

Do we have a feminazi in our midst?

if it is a female, i take back the good words i said about gail. flamin split arse.

[george671]

My post may not be relavent since when I am in country, most of my time is spent in Bangkok...

 

I have a steady "significant other"/girl friend that has been with me for several years...I still go out on occasion and enjoy the fruits on the tree so to speak.. Some of my most memorable flings have been from chance meetings in places I hang out... I do a lot of model photography, so its quite easy to meet young ladies from all walks of life,,,(though I must admit some of the ladies are in their late 20's to mid 30's) I have been quite lucky with university students as well.

 

The bars are also fun, but I prefer to hang out with girls that have not gotten two jaded with the night life scene... I might add that I am nearly 57 years young and my dick still works!!! If it ever gets to the point that it doesn't, than there is always viagra!!! Ha Ha.

 

In Bangkok, its easy to find ladies in the malls, coffee shops, The movies, upscale coffee shops, etc... One good pickup area that comes to mind (for me at least) is the cell phone vendor area in MBK mall. Second is the food court. Also I had an interesting encounter with a couple of ladies that were showing me studio rental space. The most important thing to understand is that it never hurts to show interest! Also you should remember your manners and be discreet! Many "good girls" would like to have a fling with a "Farang" but they would not want public frowning or disdain...

 

Unfortunately, for many Thai women, prejudice still abounds toward Thai/Farang relationships. Thats why the bar girl/hostess scene is much more accepted as the girls are automaticly looked down upon by the rest.

 

It helps to speak Thai fluently and understand Thai customs etc...

 

Cheers

 

www.snakephoto.blogspot.com

[kuffki]

My post may not be relavent since when I am in country, most of my time is spent in Bangkok...

 

I have a steady "significant other"/girl friend that has been with me for several years...I still go out on occasion and enjoy the fruits on the tree so to speak.. Some of my most memorable flings have been from chance meetings in places I hang out... I do a lot of model photography, so its quite easy to meet young ladies from all walks of life,,,(though I must admit some of the ladies are in their late 20's to mid 30's) I have been quite lucky with university students as well.

 

The bars are also fun, but I prefer to hang out with girls that have not gotten two jaded with the night life scene... I might add that I am nearly 57 years young and my dick still works!!! If it ever gets to the point that it doesn't, than there is always viagra!!! Ha Ha.

 

In Bangkok, its easy to find ladies in the malls, coffee shops, The movies, upscale coffee shops, etc... One good pickup area that comes to mind (for me at least) is the cell phone vendor area in MBK mall. Second is the food court. Also I had an interesting encounter with a couple of ladies that were showing me studio rental space. The most important thing to understand is that it never hurts to show interest! Also you should remember your manners and be discreet! Many "good girls" would like to have a fling with a "Farang" but they would not want public frowning or disdain...

 

Unfortunately, for many Thai women, prejudice still abounds toward Thai/Farang relationships. Thats why the bar girl/hostess scene is much more accepted as the girls are automaticly looked down upon by the rest.

 

It helps to speak Thai fluently and understand Thai customs etc...

 

Cheers

 

www.snakephoto.blogspot.com

 

Great Post and totally relevant. Yes while one can meet non working girls, that one would need to speak the language and be little more then 2 weeks tourist and be prepared to invest time and money to get a shag.

[Benny10]

The Op says maybe a lot of us may have "negative belief structures about our ability to seduce women" and then goes on to asks where "Normal" girls can be found. In other words Prostitutes are not Normal.

 

Come on guys....Don't feed the trolls!

 

It was a deliberately inflammatory opening post suggesting that mongers are somehow inadequate.

Spot on mate.

 

[aras]

the free girls are really really much more expensive than the free ones.

 

And yes even in pattaya you can meet women who are not working in the bars, but don't count on it. lol but they do cost a lot of money/time and will ruin your holiday.

[BostonSteve]

Normal, not hookers, hmm.

 

My ex, after draining the bank account and testing out a bunch of different mattresses while I was in the desert. Let see, it took a good divorce lawyer and untold bills. She was not a hooker, far as I know she was giving away. I guess she cost about 30-40 grand. I know plenty of these normal women, my friends do also.

 

Plenty of other girls, decent ones, who after dating, paying for everything I would get laid.

 

Had plenty of one nighters, but those still cost money.

 

I think maybe you have not experienced the full range of normal women. I hope you never have to deal with what I believe a high percentage of men deal with. But history tells us that you will have to deal with "normal" women.

 

I will leave you with this. In LOS I was treated extremely well by every woman I was with. I treated them with more respect than I would a normal girl because of this. I did not have one bad experience with any of them. Not once did I ever think about paying for their company, just never crossed my mind. Call them what you want. I have a lot more respect for a woman who just comes right out and tells me how much.

[Edge]

Gail sounds like a woman scorn, trying to passively aggressively flame all mongerers. When she started off with you may have issues, and maybe aren't that good looking (paraphrasing) it was an obvious low blow...........

 

I think you had it right there.

 

The OP joined and threw 2 missives in here and they're still answering.

Nothing further from the OP, though he/she is still logging in and no doubt laughing.

These threads will always catch those who just answer the OP without reading subsequent posts, so on it will go - and I just helped it.

 

Edited April 19, 2010 by The Edge

[swazzii]

to pay or NOT to pay..... i think coz they are so easy going , you end up giving them something any way.

at least i have on numerous occasians... guess it feels good to show that you appreciate their culture.

[Poloman]

Yes my gik is a normal(non BG) girl. But I discovered quickly that she costs more than the working girls ie. drinks for her and maybe a friend of hers, food etc...

 

BG's are da bomb lol

[thaitan]

Thai girls are normal girls. 'Free' doesn't make them better or worse.

If they have sex for money, that's because they can't earn enough in other ways in Thailand. Cut them some slack. Beautiful people, and deserving of our respect.

[Edge]

The OP joined and threw 2 missives in here and they're still answering.

Nothing further from the OP, though he/she is still logging in and no doubt laughing.

These threads will always catch those who just answer the OP without reading subsequent posts, so on it will go - and I just helped it.

 

to pay or NOT to pay.....

Yes my gik is a normal(non BG) girl...................

Thai girls are normal girls. 'Free' doesn't make them better or worse.....................

 

THIS WAS A TROLL POST - OP BANNED

 

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[kuffki]

Thai girls are normal girls. 'Free' doesn't make them better or worse.

If they have sex for money, that's because they can't earn enough in other ways in Thailand. Cut them some slack. Beautiful people, and deserving of our respect.

Enough for what? enough for whom?

 

Do you know for a fact that those who do have sex for money tried to earn money any other ways? Enough for what? for a bowl of rice or brand new BMW?

[kuffki]

THIS WAS A TROLL POST - OP BANNED

 

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OP is banned and your point is???

While the OP opening was "wrong" the thread has developed into an interesting read.