YOU LITTLE WANKER!! Do you abstain from masterbation before going to Patters?

[wengweng]

 I am due  in Pattaya in July and from my last visit in 2016 (and further back) when I brought  a lady back for boom boom, its was very difficult for me  to shoot my load, and it too a lot of effort. I didnt know whether it was the condoms or through too much wanking back home to porn. I thought it may have been due to what some guys on here have called "Wanker's grip", and because of that the ladies pussy wasnt  tight enough.  I have tried abstaining in the past and managed a few months at a time, but always end up  pulling my puds . I intend to give up porn  for a long period of time before going , which when younger was much more diffifult than now. 

I actually dont wank as much as I used to, maybe its age now I am in my fifties, but something else worries me. I remember the last time I abstained,  and when I finally succumbed to  a hand shandy  it actually  hurt my nether regions,and  it was not that enjoyable. I am worried that when I abstain this time from maybe Januar to when finally I go in July,  that it could hurt again. Do any of you chaps do any abstaining  from porn and wanking before going to Pattaya , and have you had any similar problems?

[CaribbeanDelight]

No, though i don't watch porn that often. So it could be regarded as abstain.

Is it something Ì do/consider consciously, no.

[Magic040]

Nah, only when i'm in Thailand i stop masturbating.

[nourishing lotion]

I think that a week should be long enough. I've heard that if you go without for months it can have the opposite effect. I was thinking of holding back for an entire month, but after some research I've decided that a week or two is sufficient. 

Though I do think it best to avoid porn for longer periods, in my opinion it can desensitise the mind to the visual aspects of intimacy.

[SteveX08]

3 hours ago, wengweng said:

some guys on here have called "Wanker's grip", and because

The recommendation of many is to invest in a ‘toy’ (eg. Fleshlight) to replace your hand.  Your sensitivity gradually returns as your member isn’t being gripped as tightly…

[wengweng]

1 hour ago, nourishing lotion said:

I think that a week should be long enough. I've heard that if you go without for months it can have the opposite effect. I was thinking of holding back for an entire month, but after some research I've decided that a week or two is sufficient. 

Though I do think it best to avoid porn for longer periods, in my opinion it can desensitise the mind to the visual aspects of intimacy.

Yes I have heard that and I agree that you want  harder porn the more time goes on. In fact I even found myself fantasising  of  very  hard porn as I was actually fucking ladies in pattaya.  I  must admit it seems so strange  that years ago I could get as hard as a rock  simply  just seeing a woman posing in on of those  soft porn mags, you know  the ones  could get off the shelf in any  news agent .

I can recall as a very young lad finding some soft porn mags in the wardrobe hidden in a suitcase by my oldest brother. I can recall the feeling I got at that time . The feeling new and so pleasurable for a young lad, shaking and sweating looking at something so tame now my comparison. I wish I could get those same sensatiosn when i get bakc to the land of smiles and looking at all that lovely fless on show.

[beyondthenorm]

I have read about this issue.  If you masturbate a lot, you may find it more difficult to cum because of what you said, your cock gets used to a certain grip to cum and it's just different from a pussy.  The long term solution is to abstain from masturbation from your hand and over time, if you just engage in sex, your cock will get used to the pussy grip again.  

For most guys, it is impossible not to watch porn and jerk off. One solution at home is to see escorts when you feel the need rather than jerking off.

If you find yourself unable to finish during sex, you can always watch porn with your girl and have her jerk you off for the big finish.  Just give her the proper instructions on how you want it done and she will be more than happy to accommodate you.

[Primusthai]

I'm in my early thirties and I usually masturbate once a day but if I know I am going to get some action I hold off for a few days for a big release. 

I don't think I would ever go months without masturbating at least at my current age. 

[alleantony]

I have my "special" lines who are ready and willing to help take care of my needs even though we are miles apart 😉 

[1tooth]

I recall an expert claiming it takes 3 months abstinence for your body to reset.

[madmike]

Well, it takes about 30 hours of travel with no privacy so I guess I abstain at least that long.  🤣

[faluck you]

I call the 14 days before I hit Thailand the NPP. No Pull Period.

[ShortTime]

Or find a tight pussy!

[keepitfun]

I did this once.  Nearly drowned the poor girl.  I arrived early morning in patts, got a blowie on Soi Honey.  ‘Nuff said.  

Edited September 2, 2023 by keepitfun

[vimto66]

If you need a toss and avoid wankers grip do it with your left hand or vice verse if you're left handed, i normally abstain for 4-6 weeks if i have trip on the horizon, if the first girls willing i like to make a real mess.

[beyondthenorm]

I usually try to save up two weeks prior to the trip but usually fail.  Hard to resist porn.  One week to go is more feasible.  

[Magic040]

On 27/08/2023 at 21:46, madmike said:

Well, it takes about 30 hours of travel with no privacy so I guess I abstain at least that long.  🤣

Never done it in the toilet of a plane? 
When very horny and the air staff is hot i just can't resist.
Even heard stories of dudes doing it under the blanket but i'm not taking that risk.

[wengweng]

On 04/09/2023 at 18:42, vimto66 said:

If you need a toss and avoid wankers grip do it with your left hand or vice verse if you're left handed, i normally abstain for 4-6 weeks if i have trip on the horizon, if the first girls willing i like to make a real mess.

I may well try that Vim. I reckon if your ambidextrous  your spoiled for choice....

[wengweng]

On 02/09/2023 at 12:05, keepitfun said:

I did this once.  Nearly drowned the poor girl.  I arrived early morning in patts, got a blowie on Soi Honey.  ‘Nuff said.  

 

[vimto66]

13 minutes ago, wengweng said:

I may well try that Vim. I reckon if your ambidextrous  your spoiled for choice....

Be carefull if you're a first timer, it might be hard to get a rythm going at first, dont writhe it off or else you wont be going anywhere.

[AreandBe]

I personally do abstain whenever I know I might be able to have sex in the short term future. If you have trouble abstaining I'd try to find something to do regularly that gets you out of the house.

Also I think the toy suggestions is also another work around give you less of a death grip hopefully and a different feel. Who knows might make you want to masturbate more 5555.

[Cannibal]

Stop being a caveman and using your hand..... it's 2023 get a fuckin handy

I can't emphasize how awesome these things are, pricy but well worth it. It's about as close to a real pussy as your gonna get 

I always significantly reduce the the amount of times I crank one out before going on a trip or if I'm sexually active.  For the exact same reason you listed. 

Wouldn't cut yourself completely off though. 

Edited September 8, 2023 by Cannibal

[BuakhaoBarry]

Yep. For 7-10 days before flying out was my personal thing.

I'd also load up on Zinc, Ashuaghanda, Celery (trust me celery works to increase your loads) and also supplement with vitamin D&C in the month or so leading up to my trip so my first load I blow in Thailand is a fucking monster load.

Ashuaghanda is great as it reduces stress (stress can effect sperm count and volume) and it also increases free natural testosterone thus helping you blow bugger loads. 

Oh and trust me don't forget the celery it fucking works!

[wengweng]

10 minutes ago, BuakhaoBarry said:

Yep. For 7-10 days before flying out was my personal thing.

I'd also load up on Zinc, Ashuaghanda, Celery (trust me celery works to increase your loads) and also supplement with vitamin D&C in the month or so leading up to my trip so my first load I blow in Thailand is a fucking monster load.

Ashuaghanda is great as it reduces stress (stress can effect sperm count and volume) and it also increases free natural testosterone thus helping you blow bugger loads. 

Oh and trust me don't forget the celery it fucking works!

That is interesting about the celery, as it  couldnt have come at a better time to know, because the holiday is in July and   I am starting to eat healthy now.

I have also started to take vitimans , that in include Zinc  and cod liver  oil  amongst others. I have  not heard of Ashuaghanda, so must look into that, and see where i can get it. 

[elperro]

Strikes me that not being able to come because you are used to your own tight fingers is a problem sent from heaven. Just slow down and fuck the girl for an hour. What's the longest you have lasted? Can you break your record? If you still cannot come then have the girl stick her tits or pussy in your face or her fingers in your arse and get off by hand.