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Too much porn can cause SADD


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(This makes sense, I have no problems achieving wood watching too much porn, but sometimes with a girl I start to lose erection)

 

http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_500/566_too-much-internet-porn-the-sadd-effect.html

 

As a sex therapist and founder of Good in Bed, I’ve seen a sharp increase in men who suffer from a new syndrome I’ve dubbed “Sexual Attention Deficit Disorder,” or SADD. And the source of this problem is just a click away -- too much internet porn.

 

Just as people with ADD are easily distracted, guys with SADD have become so accustomed to the high levels of visual novelty and stimulation that comes from internet porn that they’re unable to focus on real sex with a real woman. As a result, guys with SADD often find it difficult to maintain an erection during intercourse, or they experience delayed ejaculation and can only climax with manual or oral stimulation.

 

Bored in bed?

 

Men with SADD tend to find themselves getting bored or impatient during sex. They may be physiologically aroused and erect, but they’re not at peak mental arousal. Guys with SADD may also simply lack the mojo for real sex because they’re depleted from masturbation. They’re not running on a full tank, physically or mentally.

 

Believe it or not, I first became aware of SADD via the complaints of women who wondered why their guys couldn’t ejaculate (and were often faking it) or who noticed that their partners seemed disconnected or uninterested during sex. When I dug a little deeper, or talked to the guys themselves, I realized that these men were masturbating more than usual due to their easy access to internet porn. Sometimes, they were masturbating about the same as always, but hadn’t realized that their natural refractory period -- the recovery time between erections -- was increasing as they aged.

 

Don’t get me wrong, I’m a big fan of masturbation. It helps a guy blow off some steam and is like a 30-second spa day. But easy access to internet porn and the sheer variety of novelty it contains have affected average guys who wouldn’t normally have a problem. Because of this, these men have rewired their brains to crave the instant gratification of a porn-enabled orgasm. This means that they’re developing what’s clinically referred to as an idiosyncratic masturbatory style: They’ve accustomed themselves to an intense type of physical stimulation that’s not approximated during real sex. Their overall levels of sexual desire for their partners are down, and they need to fantasize during real sex in order to maintain a full erection.

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Interesting.... i guess i will just have to more of the making and less of the watching !

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God bless internet porn! I think everyone in one way or another (male/female) fantasize during sex. Think most guys see all this dirty porn and than when it comes to actauly performing the deed with a woman it feels tame in comparison. Nothing new, though as I think everyone fantasizes at one point in their life wether that be because they are bored or addicted to Internet porn.

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i was once told that when a married couple are having sex the two people that are making it happen arent even there.

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