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I was circumcised as a young kid, and with the sensitive part of my dick developing insensitivity from constantly being rubbed against my pants, I’ve always had some difficulties feeling a lot during sex. 

As I grow older (I’m in my early 50s) it’s obviously getting worse. It usually doesn’t even matter much if go bareback or cap up.

In order to climax, I need to be turned on to the extreme to compensate for the quasi-numb dick feel, but with age that’s not as easy as it still was 15 years ago.

Has anybody had similar problems and found help? 

Needless to say I already searched the forum and googled my arse off, but didn’t spot anything useful. 
 

Posted

Probably just needs a cuddle.

Posted
1 minute ago, rope-a-dope said:

Probably just needs a cuddle.

Quite possible. 

I hope you're not volunteering, mate! 😂

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Posted

Nope! 😂

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Posted
36 minutes ago, leechtat said:

I was circumcised as a young kid, and with the sensitive part of my dick developing insensitivity from constantly being rubbed against my pants, I’ve always had some difficulties feeling a lot during sex. 

As I grow older (I’m in my early 50s) it’s obviously getting worse. It usually doesn’t even matter much if go bareback or cap up.

In order to climax, I need to be turned on to the extreme to compensate for the quasi-numb dick feel, but with age that’s not as easy as it still was 15 years ago.

Has anybody had similar problems and found help? 

Needless to say I already searched the forum and googled my arse off, but didn’t spot anything useful. 
 

I once mixed up soap and body lotion and had it over night on my dick, resulted in all the skin falling off my dick head. nothing serious just shedding the top layer and it got much more sensitive after that, but only for a while. Almost so I want to do it again :) . Not recommending doing it but might give you an idea of what works

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Thanks - you sound like quite the experimentalist! 😂

May I ask if you're cut as well? And how long was the "while" it lasted? 2 days? 2 weeks?

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Oh man, I wish I had your problem. I'm not cut and extremely sensitive. As a result, sometimes I shoot too quick. It's also frustrating to the point that as a last resort I was actually considering getting circumcised because I heard it can make you feel less.

But looks like you would rather change it back now if you had a chance. I don't know how could you make your best friend more sensitive tho, maybe there are specialist who can help you with this. Surely you are not alone with this kind of problem so I would not be surprised if there is a solution out there already.

I'm not sure if I can link Quora, but there is a discussion about this. Just a few quotes from there:

"The only way to get regain sensitivity is to keep the head covered like it was supposed to be. You should look into foreskin restoration, thousands of men are doing it & say sex is like night & day after they restore."

"Try Manhood https://manhoodcanada.com. This is a small piece of fabric that covers the glans. After a few months, the skin becomes softer and regains some sensitivity."

Well, I hope you'll find a solution soon.

 

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Well, I was circumcised as a child (now 70) and I don’t have your problem OP so perhaps it’s nothing to do with the fact that you are cut. Perhaps try different underwear. I use Step One made from bamboo. Highly recommended. 

Posted
10 minutes ago, David2268 said:

Well, I was circumcised as a child (now 70) and I don’t have your problem OP so perhaps it’s nothing to do with the fact that you are cut. Perhaps try different underwear. I use Step One made from bamboo. Highly recommended. 

Yes, not everybody who's cut has this problem. Maybe I just have "thicker skin" even without the circumcision.

It's easy to underestimate how different people are, not just in that regard.

Thanks for the tip re underwear, will have a look. 

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I'm getting circumcised in a couple weeks at the age of 49 due to medical issues. Booked to come to Pattaya 5 months later, not sure what to expect but looking forward it. Been Pattaya 7 times before uncut! 

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So basically you have the opposite of PE?

There is oils / creams etc that can increase sensitivity...most of them are targeted for girls but may work for men. I've used it before, but don't know if it's available in Thailand.

 

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On 02/08/2023 at 09:42, leechtat said:

I was circumcised as a young kid, and with the sensitive part of my dick developing insensitivity from constantly being rubbed against my pants, I’ve always had some difficulties feeling a lot during sex. 

As I grow older (I’m in my early 50s) it’s obviously getting worse. It usually doesn’t even matter much if go bareback or cap up.

In order to climax, I need to be turned on to the extreme to compensate for the quasi-numb dick feel, but with age that’s not as easy as it still was 15 years ago.

Has anybody had similar problems and found help? 

Needless to say I already searched the forum and googled my arse off, but didn’t spot anything useful. 
 

I have the same problem. I want to look into the manhood cap, for me I find temperature and time of day makes a difference. I try to keep the room to 70- 85, not too cold and not too hot. Kegel exercises  (to understand the locking of the tubing), meditation or qigong(mindfulness of living in the moment).  and I really try to not masturbate a month before my trip to regulate all the sensations.  I think there's a mental aspect as much as a physical aspect to overcome for me although it happens with every sexual partner if i can get myself in a relaxed state it helps.

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I have this issue as well. Mostly because I masturbate too much. I found the most improvement is waiting 1 to 2 days without masturbating really helps. You could also try some of those sensation lubes or supplements like horny goat weed.

I have tried a supplement called ejaculoid (contains horny goat weed plus other ingredients) which helped me recover quicker and have my first ever double shot experience. It's main purpose was to increase my load size. It worked for me but I have also given it to my friends and they didn't experience the same success that I did but still a slight improvement.

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Posted

Even i had same issue , but i was not circumcised , sensitivity is quite  less. Very hard to finish climax , its only possible to finish with hands . Any suggestions on how to fix that problem . Is that problem due to condom issue or masturbation due to porn . i had tried so many times , cant cum inside at all . Only finishing by hands

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8 minutes ago, Gonking said:

Even i had same issue , but i was not circumcised , sensitivity is quite  less. Very hard to finish climax , its only possible to finish with hands . Any suggestions on how to fix that problem . Is that problem due to condom issue or masturbation due to porn . i had tried so many times , cant cum inside at all . Only finishing by hands

Same here, can basically go for as long as I want and kinda have to force myself to be able to finish. I'd say about 50% of the time I finish by hand because i'm just way to tired or the girl starts complaining.

Also, uncut btw, so I doubt it's actually related to that. Cant tell if it would be different without a condom.

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6 minutes ago, InDaClub said:

Same here, can basically go for as long as I want and kinda have to force myself to be able to finish. I'd say about 50% of the time I finish by hand because i'm just way to tired or the girl starts complaining.

Also, uncut btw, so I doubt it's actually related to that. Cant tell if it would be different without a condom.

Hahah😀 . I feel like you had experienced same problems like me. I also can go as long as i can , then girl will starts complaining😁  to finish , finsh , blah blah . quite frustrated and irritated a lot from few months onwards .

By the way , how are you overcoming these problem ? 

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6 minutes ago, Gonking said:

Hahah😀 . I feel like you had experienced same problems like me. I also can go as long as i can , then girl will starts complaining😁  to finish , finsh , blah blah . quite frustrated and irritated a lot from few months onwards .

By the way , how are you overcoming these problem ? 

This will sound weird in a forum like this. But you guys ever tried "love"? I had / have the same problem and it can get quite annoying. But everytime i was in relationship and had strong feelings for the lady, the problem was gone and i could finish early or late, however i desired. In p4p this does not work.

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9 minutes ago, shorty76 said:

This will sound weird in a forum like this. But you guys ever tried "love"? I had / have the same problem and it can get quite annoying. But everytime i was in relationship and had strong feelings for the lady, the problem was gone and i could finish early or late, however i desired. In p4p this does not work.

Well, since I fell for a bar girl like a complete idiot, I'll give that "love" a try on my next trip.😂

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In my mid 60s, do not notice any difference in sensitivity over the years.  This may be partly due to living alone a good portion of the year, and having little to no activity for extended periods.  Do experience a really good bj tends to feel better than sex, and anal tends to feel the best when having sex, though I will take all without questions 😉

I recommend discuss with your medical doctor to get their input on what might be causing that.

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18 hours ago, Spaz-505 said:

I recommend discuss with your medical doctor to get their input on what might be causing that.

Doctors will tell you two things ... And two things only.

It is either 1) one of your medicines (most likely an ssri drug) or 2) a psychological issue.

Some might suggest that you stop masturbating, stop watching porn, fuck less, and other suggestions that have no basis in fact or research.

Less than 3% of the men in the world suffer from retarded ejaculation (its official name until "retarded" became a bad word) and now referred to as delayed ejaculation.  

And you won't get any empathy from guys here.  Especially the premature ejaculators who comprise 30-50% of the male population.  They can't fathom how someone can't cum.  Lol

I know 2 guys here that openly discussed their PE issues.  One can cum from a lap dance and the other uses condoms religiously otherwise he can't make it past the one minute mark.  

And btw, I'm jealous of you PEs.  I dream of suffering from your affliction.  Especially since I am paying and the only one I need to be concerned with.  Lol

 

On 02/08/2023 at 21:42, leechtat said:

In order to climax, I need to be turned on to the extreme

Combine that with intercourse less often (technically, more days between sessions) and your percentage of orgasms increase.

We are mongers.  We have had sex with more partners in a one week trip than most guys have in their lifetime.  

That is why guys create bucket lists.  Boredom and the need to push the limit.  Hahahah

 

 

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On 09/12/2024 at 18:04, shorty76 said:

This will sound weird in a forum like this. But you guys ever tried "love"? I had / have the same problem and it can get quite annoying. But everytime i was in relationship and had strong feelings for the lady, the problem was gone and i could finish early or late, however i desired. In p4p this does not work.

So true! The more feelings I have for a girl, the more easy it is to come when having sex with her, especially if she is clearly in to me as well! If I see in the face of a girl I fuck that she enjoys it is the biggest afrodisiac, and makes me feel very horny as well and easy to ejaculate! 

That is why I always take long time to find and barfine a gogo girl, not only must she look good, but also be easy and fun to talk to and show genuine interest in my as well! It takes two to Tango!

My advice is: choose the girl better, even though it might take some time to find the perfect one!

 

 

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I'm circumsized nine out of ten times it's fine, when it's not it's because i wasn't that horny and had sex with someone that doesn't turn me on enough or no friction in the pussy and rubbish at blowjob.

Tips:

No condom

No dick pills

No or minimal alcohol

A girl that's actually turning you on

Good at blowjob so you know you could cum either way

A pussy that gives some friction

Minimal softeners i.e. girl doesn't do things that put you off 

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On 12/12/2024 at 05:17, Scuba+ said:

I'm circumsized nine out of ten times it's fine, when it's not it's because i wasn't that horny and had sex with someone that doesn't turn me on enough or no friction in the pussy and rubbish at blowjob.

Tips:

No condom

No dick pills

No or minimal alcohol

A girl that's actually turning you on

Good at blowjob so you know you could cum either way

A pussy that gives some friction

Minimal softeners i.e. girl doesn't do things that put you off 

This sounds like a good list for anyone having this kind of trouble! 

Would add the same thing almost everyone says: Atleast do not masturbate (if you do that in Pattaya) as frequently 😁

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On 11/12/2024 at 22:17, Scuba+ said:

I'm circumsized nine out of ten times it's fine, when it's not it's because i wasn't that horny and had sex with someone that doesn't turn me on enough or no friction in the pussy and rubbish at blowjob.

Tips:

No condom

No dick pills

No or minimal alcohol

A girl that's actually turning you on

Good at blowjob so you know you could cum either way

A pussy that gives some friction

Minimal softeners i.e. girl doesn't do things that put you off 

I would also add to the list……. Eat some proper meat! Every second or third day I go somewhere for a proper steak…….. as good as Thai food is the portions can be on the small side and the meat content isn’t enough……. Eat red meat 

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On 11/12/2024 at 18:18, plahgat said:

So true! The more feelings I have for a girl, the more easy it is to come when having sex with her, especially if she is clearly in to me as well! If I see in the face of a girl I fuck that she enjoys it is the biggest afrodisiac, and makes me feel very horny as well and easy to ejaculate! 

That is why I always take long time to find and barfine a gogo girl, not only must she look good, but also be easy and fun to talk to and show genuine interest in my as well! It takes two to Tango!

My advice is: choose the girl better, even though it might take some time to find the perfect one!

 

 

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