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What do you think Randy :GoldenSmile1:

 

I think you're a hidden closet LB lover :D

 

I have nothing against anyone going with LBs. I have nothing against LBs, my wife has some LB friends ( non p4p ) and they are wonderful people. I just can't except some of the bullshit guys come out with when they show a preference for shagging another bloke up the arse. Ooooh but they are so much prettier than women, ooooh they are so tall and sexy, bollocks, they've also got a cock as well which is the real reason.

 

Seriously though Randy LBs do nothing for me sexually at all, I know some much better looking women in my opinion. A couple of LBs my wife knows are lovely people but, maybe its just me, when close up I can still see a mans face. You can still see a shadow on the chin and you can also smell the difference between them and a woman ( IMO ). I've also seen them without all the make-up, they are blokes and thats it.

 

OK serious too. So what's your interest in other guys going with LBs? Whatever their reasons (you may find those reasons laughable, hypocritical, lies or whatever) why should you bother?

 

My reasons: some girls I like, and I'll gladly share my bed with them. Some LBs I like too, and I'll also share my bed with them. Many girls and LBs I don't like. As I've stated before: I have sex with people, not with genitals.

 

The 'real reason' you state is total bollocks. If that were true I'd never go with ladies.

 

Some people seem to believe that once you have sex with a LB you will become a homosexual (i.e. not have sex with women again). That IMO is so ridiculously close minded, it doesn't deserve a serious answer. But I won't interfere with their beliefs. Just let me have sex with women and LBs I like.

 

Reading your responses again I think you are too much focussed on the penis or the LB's maleness. Come on, go with a LB once, you'll get over that and feel much much better :D .

Men want to fuck many women. Women want to fuck the best provider. Only in the paysex scene both goals are met.

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I think you're a hidden closet LB lover :GoldenSmile1:

 

 

 

OK serious too. So what's your interest in other guys going with LBs? Whatever their reasons (you may find those reasons laughable, hypocritical, lies or whatever) why should you bother?

 

My reasons: some girls I like, and I'll gladly share my bed with them. Some LBs I like too, and I'll also share my bed with them. Many girls and LBs I don't like. As I've stated before: I have sex with people, not with genitals.

 

The 'real reason' you state is total bollocks. If that were true I'd never go with ladies.

 

Some people seem to believe that once you have sex with a LB you will become a homosexual (i.e. not have sex with women again). That IMO is so ridiculously close minded, it doesn't deserve a serious answer. But I won't interfere with their beliefs. Just let me have sex with women and LBs I like.

 

Reading your responses again I think you are too much focussed on the penis or the LB's maleness. Come on, go with a LB once, you'll get over that and feel much much better :D .

 

 

I reckon I'll need someone with plenty of LB experience to show me the ins and outs of ladyboy love. Alex, when are you next in Thailand ?

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I reckon I'll need someone with plenty of LB experience to show me the ins and outs of ladyboy love. Alex, when are you next in Thailand ?

 

Just notice you're avoiding the question. Typical for a closet LB lover :GoldenSmile1: .

 

Be a man, Lincslad, and face your fears alone! Pop over to JSB tonight, come on, I know you can do it! They will love your ass LOL.

Men want to fuck many women. Women want to fuck the best provider. Only in the paysex scene both goals are met.

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As I said, absolutely no offense taken. Someone in NYC says my missus looks like a transvestite- them's fighten' words LOL, but in Pattaya it's quite the complement. You see blond hair, boobs and abs in Pattaya 99 times out of a 100 it's a LB. When Kat flexes in the mirror she says "Look! Like a ladyboy!" given the standard of some of the locals, it's just not an insult.

 

But back on topic labeling people always causes problems. Kat has no problem playing with girls- but suggest she is bisexual and you've got a fight on your hands. Filipina Catholic- therefor not Bi. Just drunk. On Pepsi. It does not matter if I think she is Bi, slapping that label on achieves nothing.

 

Lot of this boils down to fear. I see this a lot in American gyms. Guys are quick to make a nuisance of themselves chatting up every girl that walks into the gym but when a gay guy looks at them a little too long they freak out and go looking for a tire iron to prove they are "not a homo". Try getting hit on by a 300+ pounder in the locker room and it will give you an idea how girls must feel when we get in their space, stare at their boobs, and make otherwise unwelcome advances. Men are just not taught or accustomed to dealing with unwelcome attention so tend to get belligerent or aggressive.

 

Some guys don't like ladyboys touching them, it makes them uncomfortable and afraid, next thing you know they are pounding their vagina-loving chest and posting all over the message forums. Guys need to man the fuck up, they're not going to get raped by the 60kg Thai boy in heels.

 

 

 

yeah all cool, and i agree with everything, but with me, im not homophobic, far from it i enjoy alot of gay friends company, all it is with me is, in pattaya, i can never be sure and there fore i get rather pickie and endup going with hardly anyone there, which defies the whole point of pattaya!! lol

 

also, heres a Q, where to gay guys get their voices from? if your born gay, accepted, but dont tell me for one min your born with different vocal chords!

 

and one more thing! when in a gay club, how comes things like sex in the loo's and direct sex chat with a wry smile but to a stranger happens so frequently yet this doesnt happen half as much in straight clubs? when i was with my ex she used to tag me along to the gay bars and the amount of times i walked into the loo's and stuff was happening, wow, i mean, of course stuff like that happens in straight clubs but no where NEAR as much!

 

ah well, i guess i should end this by saying who cares eh, ti's just life eh.

 

I was supposed to go Patt's early june, mate cant go now, do i go or not, hmm, i wanted to hang out with the lads, didnt really enjoy it neough last yr when i was on my jack...

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As I said, absolutely no offense taken. Someone in NYC says my missus looks like a transvestite- them's fighten' words LOL, but in Pattaya it's quite the complement. You see blond hair, boobs and abs in Pattaya 99 times out of a 100 it's a LB. When Kat flexes in the mirror she says "Look! Like a ladyboy!" given the standard of some of the locals, it's just not an insult.

 

But back on topic labeling people always causes problems. Kat has no problem playing with girls- but suggest she is bisexual and you've got a fight on your hands. Filipina Catholic- therefor not Bi. Just drunk. On Pepsi. It does not matter if I think she is Bi, slapping that label on achieves nothing.

 

Lot of this boils down to fear. I see this a lot in American gyms. Guys are quick to make a nuisance of themselves chatting up every girl that walks into the gym but when a gay guy looks at them a little too long they freak out and go looking for a tire iron to prove they are "not a homo". Try getting hit on by a 300+ pounder in the locker room and it will give you an idea how girls must feel when we get in their space, stare at their boobs, and make otherwise unwelcome advances. Men are just not taught or accustomed to dealing with unwelcome attention so tend to get belligerent or aggressive.

 

Some guys don't like ladyboys touching them, it makes them uncomfortable and afraid, next thing you know they are pounding their vagina-loving chest and posting all over the message forums. Guys need to man the fuck up, they're not going to get raped by the 60kg Thai boy in heels.

 

So Milo is Kat a fit girl?

 

I am not understanding your description...

 

She is either a fit girl that intimidates a few, or a fit LB that intimidates a few?

 

All of my friends think I am crazy coz i :Party1: fit/bodybuilder type women - but its just my thing

and I enjoy the look of LB's - most are stunning and have great bods

 

back on topic

 

For me its about tolerance, if someone wants to dress or act or believe in something then thats all cool by me

so different religions, sexualities or general kookiness are fine by me

 

makes the world a more interesting place

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Nah Man,

 

Kat is a Full Blown Woman! Lovely personality as well. She is just sorta extreme, which some people associate with LBs.

 

Sorry to answer that for you kat&milo. Didnt mean any harm.

 

BJS

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You don't need a phd in psychology to see someone making those type of metaphors could be passive aggressive - please. talk about denial. and since when is could be passive aggressive a DSM IV diagnosis?

 

I have a more enlightened mind than most and I don't see them as anywhere near an evolution of mankind ... Are you serious or being sarcastic - I seriously don't understand.

 

Some LBs could be considered thieves and not to all first time visitors. Just to those sex tourists drunk and walking around at 4am in pattaya or bangkok. I have no pity for you if you can't handle your drink and are out at 4am in a new city.

 

To the thais they are beautiful creatures - WTF does that mean? To all the thais?

 

Free speech does not protect you from comment on that speech - duh.

 

Obviously the Lord Jim reference went right over your head...

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Why do people call ladyboys "girls"?

 

 

Why not?

 

They see themselves as girls, and sometimes the even look better than most girls.

 

Unless you are some sort of homophobe (Which seems to be in no short supply on this board) I don't see what the problem is.

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Why do people call Ladyboys "girls"?

 

Why not?

They see themselves as girls, and sometimes the even look better than most girls.

 

Unless you are some sort of homophobe (Which seems to be in no short supply on this board) I don't see what the problem is.

 

I see myself as superman, but very few call me that ....


 

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I see myself as superman, but very few call me that ....

 

if you look like superman and dress like him, and act like him (e.g., standing up for other people) and want to be called superman, I am willing to accommodate you. I suspect we're currently looking at 0 out of 3.

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i believe to each his own....LIVE AND LET LIVE!!!!! I am an iraq war veteran i've seen things and been places where people certainly weren't happy and people were out there trying to kill me!!! if the man next to me is a gentleman and isn't harming me in anyway directly or indirectly than who am i to judge...LIVE AND LET LIVE BOYS!

 

i will call anyone what ever they want to be called because thats respect and respect is a 2 way street!

 

if a ladyboy wants to be refered to as a she so be it.......who are you to judge! and believe me since returning from war i see things very differently.. people deserve to be HAPPY. who the hell are you to take that away from them if they aren't doing you any particular harm what so ever.

 

no one has the right to force their own personal beliefs on to someone else.

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It's because they r frigging gorgeous. And i'm straight by the way.

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They see themselves as girls,

 

if you look like ... dress like ... act like him ...

 

That wasn't what I replied to.

The statement was "they see themselves as ..."


 

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They see themselves as girls. They look like girls. They act like girls. And some of them are extremely beautyfull. So why not call them girls? I don't see the problem.

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They see themselves as girls. They look like girls. They act like girls. And some of them are extremely beautyfull. So why not call them girls? I don't see the problem.

 

I don't see the "problem" in calling them girls, nor do I see the problem in calling a spade a spade.


 

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on a strictly biological level they are male, and no amount of surgery or hormone therapy is going to change that fact, having said that, if they or others prefer to classify them or themselves as female i really have no problem with that.

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This subject goe's on and on . The reason why some guys call them girls is because they enjoy sexual relations with another person who has a cock but is in denial they are bi-sexual or possibly gay. It has nothing to do with LBs being better looking than women. I bet I could look like a sexy burd as well but it would be the bonus of my big cock that guys would be actually interested in.

 

There is nothing wrong with wanting to shag LBs if that is your thing but stop talking as though their penis has nothing to do with it.

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This subject goe's on and on . The reason why some guys call them girls is because they enjoy sexual relations with another person who has a cock but is in denial they are bi-sexual or possibly gay. It has nothing to do with LBs being better looking than women. I bet I could look like a sexy burd as well but it would be the bonus of my big cock that guys would be actually interested in.

 

There is nothing wrong with wanting to shag LBs if that is your thing but stop talking as though their penis has nothing to do with it.

 

The only way you could definitively know that is if you yourself are a LB fucker, no? Can you explain this to me? Maybe those guys like the LB's balls and not their cock? Maybe they like the smell of a man, who the fuck knows? But, you on the other hand seem to know first hand!

 

ps talking about your cock will not make it big, sorry - you should just accept you've drawn the proverbial short straw.

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The only way you could definitively know that is if you yourself are a LB fucker, no? Can you explain this to me? Maybe those guys like the LB's balls and not their cock? Maybe they like the smell of a man, who the fuck knows? But, you on the other hand seem to know first hand!

 

ps talking about your cock will not make it big, sorry - you should just accept you've drawn the proverbial short straw.

 

 

You're right el jefe, what was I thinking, why would anyone go with a LB just because they've got a cock.

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I'll probably upset a lot of people here but I think if you're having sex with a man, you are gay or at least bisexual (confused?).... you simply cannot think these people are female... :(

 

I work with a 'ladyboy' and 'she' uses the female toilets, I think that is totally disgusting and inappropriate. I definitely would not want my wife/daughter to be in the toilet and have some.... confused shemale in there as well. Again, call me ignorant, call me whatever you like - but you butt-fk a man, that makes you gay.

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I'll probably upset a lot of people here but I think if you're having sex with a man, you are gay or at least bisexual (confused?).... you simply cannot think these people are female... :(

 

I work with a 'ladyboy' and 'she' uses the female toilets, I think that is totally disgusting and inappropriate. I definitely would not want my wife/daughter to be in the toilet and have some.... confused shemale in there as well. Again, call me ignorant, call me whatever you like - but you butt-fk a man, that makes you gay.

 

Well I am sure glad you got that out of your system! Only thing is what has that got to do with why people call ladyboy's girls? Maybe you could open up a thread asking if people who fuck lbs are gay or not - would be completely new question on here :Drunk_Party:

 

As for your disgusting comment - as someone much wiser (and bigger) than myself once said, just "man the fuck up."

 

I don't think you are ignorant btw - you know all the facts. I am unsure why this "shemale" is confused though. I would think most of them are much more resolute and unequivocal about who and what they are than anyone else. It sure as shit aint easy being a shemale I bet. She probably has a lot more heart than any of us. I don't fuck them, but I sure as hell respect them.

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I had a Thai ladyboy FWB back when I visited in March. She would always get mad when I referred to her a beautiful lady. I thought it was because she thought she wasn't beautiful, but I later found out she hated being called a lady/girl/woman. As soon as I started referring to her as a sexy guy, she cheered right up.

 

I've never been attracted to a regular guy, but I'd always found ladyboys attractive. Fortunately, I let my inhibitions get the best of me and had some of the best sex ever on my trip. Also, believe the rumors...ladyboys DO give the best blowjobs.

When I was a child, I spoke and thought as a child. But when I became a man, I had that child taken out back and shot. ~Bill McNeal

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They are ผู้ชิง not woman or man.

 

Or you can ask them, they'll tell you it's up to you.

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Many LB's are prettier than regular women...so I view them as women :GoldenSmile1: ........."Hey there Sailor!"

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