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Mongering Best Practices

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On 18/02/2020 at 16:50, Buddy Edgewood said:

Agree with everything except for #6.  As long as you're clean, don't smell bad, and have a pleasant personality, the only thing the girls are interested in is your baht.  Besides the likelihood of sweating more, thus leading you to become a smelly falang quickly, dressing up makes you a mark.  We could debate all day that dressing up leads to increased ST/LT cost quotes and tougher negotiations because dressing up implies that you're richer than the rest of us losers wearing shorts and sandals.  Plus, if you dress up, you're more likely to be hounded for LDs by every girl in the bar, especially the fat one with the crossed eyes, who will sit next to you and hold on to your arm like she owns you - because you so handsome and she's in love with you!

But hey, if dressing up makes you feel more confident about yourself, more power to ya.  Meanwhile, I'll get the same girls for the same price and be more comfortable while doing so.  :Whistle:

I have to agree in concept, but "dressing up" could mean putting a golf shirt on instead of a basketball jersey, which in my mind is more "evening ware"- cheers

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JeremyS

Mongering with a panache ...

Knew these two guys, very cool guys, and like many people preferred Pattaya to BKK. One of them had some sort of job handling docks and import and export in Africa for a big multinational, and the pay was excellent. So he took $50,000 US (from what I recall), rented a penthouse suite in Pattaya, with hot tubs, one of the top places around. And each night the two of them and a friend would barfine something like 15 ladies and have an endless party. The photos were epic. They did this for about 20 days until they spent the entire 50K. I think they said the experience in a way ruined Thailand for them because they know they could never top it. Sadly, I wasn't in country for it. 

Once the nasty coronavirus resolves itself (I hope I get sick and get it over with), if it ever will, I plan to take 3 hotties to Krabi to a resort for a weekend. These ladies work for a massage parlor in BKK and are very sweet and cute. I've known them for a few years. It will be pricey, but you only live once. And I like to do my living in Thailand ...

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JeremyS

Anybody want a massage?

Absolute massage: 

http://absolutebangkokmassage.com

(Soi 22)

 Addict massage: 

http://www.addictmassagebkk.com/

Allstar massage: 

 http://www.allstarsbkk.com/

http://www.gdiary.com/traditional-massage/all-stars-massage

Akane massage: 

http://akane-corp.com (ok)

Akasuri: 

 http://www.gdiary.com/traditional-ma...kasuri-massage

 

 

Angels, the one and only:

 

http://angelbangkok26.com

 

http://www.gdiary.com/traditional-massage/angel-massage

 

Angels email: [email protected]

 

Apple:

 

http://www.nexyzbb.ne.jp/~thai-massage/

 

 

email of MD Masaki the Mamasan of Apple: 

 

[email protected]

 

Asoke:

 

http://asokemassage-s19.meblog.biz

 

Bamboo (Pan):

 

http://bamboobkk.com/ladies/pan/

 

 

 

Bangkok Bunny:

 

http://bangkokbunnymassage.com/masseuses/

 

 

Bangkok Passion: 

 

http://www.gdiary.com/store/massage/bangkok-passion-massage/

 

http://bangkokpassionmassage.com

 

BitStyle:

 

http://bitstylemassage.com/en/homepage-tantric-massage-bangkok/

 

http://www.gdiary.com/store/massage/bit-style/

 

BKK48: (B, L, vibrator)

 

http://bkk48.x.fc2.com/

 

Boss massage: 

 

http://www.gdiary.com/traditional-massage/boss-massage

 

Caesar's:

 

http://www.caesarsentertainment.com/

 

Candy:

 

http://www.candy-massage.com/rates.html

 

Catherine: 

 

http://www.catherine-entertainment.com

 

Cherry massage:

 

http://cherrymassagebkk.com/ladies/

 

Club 102:

 

https://www.massage-bangkok.net

 

Colonze: 

 

http://www.colonze1massage.com

 

CopaCabana:

 

http://www.copacabana2009.com

 

Culi:

 

http://culispa.x.fc2.com/

 

Diamond massage: 

 

https://www.diamondmassagebangkok.com/outcall-service

 

Doki:

 

https://dokidokibangkok.com/girls/

 

 

Dozo:

 

https://dozo-massage.com/en/

 

https://gdiary.com/store/massage/dozo-massage/

 

Dream Heaven: 

 

http://www.dreamheavenmassage.com

 

 

EuroSpa: 

 

http://pinkvacation.net/spa/Euro_Spa/

 

Exotic massage:

 

http://www.exoticmassagebangkok.com/girls/

 

 

EZ massage:

 

 

http://ezmassagebkk.com

 

email of EZ massage:

 

[email protected]

 

 

Exotic:

 

https://www.massage-bangkok.net

 

Friend:

 

http://cancam-massage.com/gals/profile.php?gal_dir=9

 

 

Fruity Spa:

 

http://www.fruityspa.com/our-model.php

 

 

FullHouse: 

 

http://fullhousemassage.web.fc2.com/map.htm

 

Great Spa: 

 

http://www.gdiary.com/store/massage/the-great-spa/

 

 

 

Hana (Rin, Queen of the expert HJ):

 

http://hanamassage.web.fc2.com/ladies.htm

 

Hera’s massage:

 

http://www.gdiary.com/store/massage/heras-massage/

 

http://www.herasmassagebkk.com/index.aspx?pid=8a14b44a-db99-4e9d-8765-68afe3acbfed

 

Honey massage : 

 

http://www.gdiary.com/traditional-massage/honey

 

Honeybee massage:

 

https://honeybeemassagebangkok.com/rooms/

 

 

JJ Fashion massage"

 

http://jjbkk.client.jp/

 

Kiss massage: 

 

http://kissbangkokmassage.com/masseuses.html

 

http://www.gdiary.com/store/massage/kiss-bangkok-massage/

 

Kimochi:

 

http://kimochi.96.lt

 

KittySpa

 

http://www.gdiary.com/store/massage/kitty-spa/

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fST92M2UGeM

 

 

 

Labelle: 

 

http://www.labelle-entertainment.com/

 

Liola:

 

http://www.gdiary.com/store/massage/liola-massage/

 

(Soi 22)

 

 

Love Love massage:

 

https://gdiary.com/store/massage/love-love-massage/

 

 

 

Love Teen:

 

http://www.love-teen.net/service.php

 

Luxury:

 

http://www.luxurybkk.com/spa_massage.php

 

Maichan massage:

 

https://maichanmassage.web.fc2.com

 

http://asok-massage.com/ladies/

 

 

 

MagicRelax: 

 

http://magicrelax.choitoippuku.com/girls1.html

 

Mango: 

 

http://www.mangomassagebkk.com/ladies/

 

 

Massageclubmitu: 

 

http://massageclubmitu.com/en/delivery.html

 

 

Meree: 

 

http://www.meree-massage.com/

 

Mermaid: 

 

http://www.gdiary.com/store/massage/mermaid-massage/

 

http://mermaid-bangkok.net

 

Miraku:

 

http://www.bangkokmirakumassage.com/14319415/service-rate

 

Mitu:

 

http://mitubangkok.com

 

Momo:

 

http://momothonglor.com/mai/

 

http://www.gdiary.com/store/massage/momo-massage/

 

Momoya:

 

http://bkk.h-momoya.com/pc/bkk/sukAlbum.html?l=m&id=61256111211830

 

https://gdiary.com/store/massage/momoya/

 

Nataree:

 

http://fullservicebkk.wordpress.com/...daphisek-road/

 

No. 1 massage (formerly Ogoto):

 

http://www.gdiary.com/store/massage/no1massage-spa/

 

Office: 

 

http://www.theofficemassageclub.com/model.php

 

Oranges:

 

https://orangemassagebkk.wixsite.com/mysite/

 

Orchid:

 

http://www.soi-japan.com/orchidmassage/eng/orchidmassage31.html

 

http://www.gdiary.com/store/massage/orchid-massage/

 

Ogoto: 

 

http://ogotomassage.client.jp/lady-en.html

 

http://www.gdiary.com/traditional-massage/ogoto-massage

 

Oh Yes:

 

http://www.oh-yes-massage.com/

 

OreNo26:

 

http://my26.net

 

http://www.gdiary.com/traditional-massage/ore-no-26-massage

 

Orient:

 

http://www.orient-massage.com/lady.htm

 

http://www.gdiary.com/traditional-massage/orient-massage

 

Outside massage:

 

http://www.outsidemassage.com/massage_team.php

 

Paradise massage:

 

http://paradisemassage.x.fc2.com/index.html

 

https://gdiary.com/store/massage/paradise-massage/

 

Paradise massage (soi 22):

 

https://www.paradisemassagebangkok.com

 

(Suzy, Pop)

 

Pink massage:

 

http://www.pinkmassage1.com

 

http://www.gdiary.com/traditional-massage/pink-massage

 

Poseidon:

 

 

http://www.soapy-massage.com/poseido...k-bangkok.html

 

Premier massage:

 

http://www.101premiermassage.com

 

 

http://www.gdiary.com/store/massage/101premier-massage/

 

Rakuen:

 

http://www.gdiary.com/store/massage/rakuen-massage-spa/

 

101Premiere massage: 

 

http://www.101premiermassage.com/en/

 

Pretty massage: 

 

http://bangkokprettymassage.com/gals/

 

(Sakura, Angie Bee Bee and Sai)

 

 

http://www.gdiary.com/traditional-massage/pretty-massage

 

Rakuen: 

 

https://gdiary.com/store/massage/rakuen-massage-spa/

 

 

 

Rerawadee:

 

http://www.rerawadee.com/

 

Ruanthai: 

 

http://www.gdiary.com/ルアンタイマッサージruanthai-massage/

 

Sazanka: 

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=of6KjLxFvo4

 

Silk massage: 

 

http://www.gdiary.com/プリティーマッサージpretty-massage-2/

 

Snow White: 

 

http://snowwhitesoi26.com/index.html

 

Sweet Mango:

 

http://sweetmango.x.fc2.com/

 

http://www.gdiary.com/traditional-massage/sweet-mango-akasurimassage

 

Tantra: ()

 

http://www.tantramassagebangkok.com/our-ladies/

 

Tengoku massage: 

 

http://orenomachi-bkk.net/tengoku/index.html

 

 

 

Thanks massage: 

 

http://thanksmassage.com

 

Tharnthong: 

 

http://www.tharnthong.com/

 

Thonglore: (Ice, Kani, Patty, Jenny, Som) 

 

http://www.55thonglor-massage.com

 

https://gdiary.com/store/massage/thonglor-massage/

 

Tulip:

 

http://www.tulipmassage.com/more.html

 

Utopia (very high end): 

 

http://www.utopiabangkok.com/

 

http://www.soapy-massage.com/utopia-...9-bangkok.html

 

http://www.utopia-entertainment.net/

 

 

 

Yorimichi massage:

 

http://www.gdiary.com/traditional-massage/yorimichi-massage

 

37.2 degree massage

 

http://www.bkk372.com

 

http://www.gdiary.com/traditional-massage/372°-massage

 

 

55 massage Bar:

 

http://2ladybkk.web.fc2.com/

 

http://www.gdiary.com/traditional-massage/55-omatsuri-massage-bar

 

101PremiereMassage: 

 

http://www.101premiermassage.com/ladies/

 

Terrific website with info on soapies:

 

http://www.soapy-massage.com/index.html

 

Maps:

BTS/MRT:

 

http://bangkoktonite.com/maps/bts_mrt_map.gif

 

Petchburi:

 

http://bangkoktonite.com/maps/new_petchburi_road.shtml

 

Soi 26:

 

 

http://www.worldsexguide.com/forum/a...7&d=1186289066

 

Nice google map someone created:

 

http://maps.google.com.au/maps/ms?hl...,0.007564&z=17

 

Ratchadipisek:

 

http://bangkoktonite.com/maps/ratchdapisek.shtml

 

Sukh Road Map:

 

http://bangkoktonite.com/maps/sukhumvit.shtml

 

 

Pricelist: 

 

http://www.ilikemassage.com/price2009/price2009.php

 

 

 

Blogs/Websites with massage info:

 

http://raku2-bkk.sakura.ne.jp/raku2/?cat=5

 

http://www.ilikemassage.com/

 

www.gdiary.com

 

http://www.bangkokeyes.com

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blueforever25

@JeremyS I might be mistaken because the post is so long, but it looks like you posted that twice.

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Nope, it's one long list of most of the BKK massage parlors. Most of the links are active and work. Just wanted to help others out. In fact, there should be a BKK thread on this website, or maybe there is, and I just haven't seen it. 

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Posted (edited)

OK, well, F me, I guess I am wrong, and I have a double post. I will fix it if I can. My bad. 

I often think in terms of "worst case scenarios". 

If I truly F up in this life, I wind up in BKK in the twilight of my years. 

Not ideal, but there are far worse scenarios. 

In fact, I want to reach out to brothers, help out. I despise selfishness, assholes, stupidity, etc. 

Man up! 

C'mon brothers. Be strong, and be courteous, demonstrate respect. 

 

Edited by JeremyS

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deano4598
14 hours ago, blueforever25 said:

@JeremyS I might be mistaken because the post is so long, but it looks like you posted that twice.

 

40 minutes ago, JeremyS said:

OK, well, F me, I guess I am wrong, and I have a double post. I will fix it if I can. My bad. 

 

Fixed :D

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Tom Tit
On 17/02/2020 at 02:43, JeremyS said:

Mongering Best Practices...

1) hotel proof your room before you go out. That means everything into the safe...

Yes. Always do that.

2) Don't drink heavily when you are out mongering,  you tend to make poor choices.

Ah. Yes. True. I do try. Fail often. All my major mongering mess-ups have occurred while shitfaced, right enough.

3) A new day means a new girl.

Hmmn. Don't agree. Depends on what makes you happiest at this or that juncture. Sometimes it's 'better the devil you know'.

4) Make friends with as many Thai ladies as you can. 

Definitely. Why would anyone wish to do otherwise?

5) Time is more valuable than money. 

Again, depends on what's in front of you in a particular mongering moment. Weigh the options and go for maximum joy.

6) Dress well, it will improve your experience. 

True. Didn't use to think so, but I do now. Shower, shampoo, shave, and clean clothes daily before venturing forth. I'm never gonna be George Clooney, but I look and feel (and therefore act: that's the important bit - the self-confidence) 'better' if I'm clean. Even if I'm on the arse end of a 5-day boozed-up shagathon bender: it's all relative. That's my personal take on it. But everyone should dress how they please and let others do the same. Descriptive, not prescriptive, that one, I think. Up to you.

7) Painstakingly negotiate everything. 

Good advice. Again, I didn't use to think so, but I've learned from some mistakes. Meticulously negotiation won't necessarily reduce cost, but does reduce stress further down the line. Nothing worse than a tremendous shagging session ruined by her sudden reluctance or refusal to do something you expected her to, or a shouting match when it comes to settling-up time.

8) Use condoms, no exceptions. 

Of course. I have trouble with this one (don't we all?), but, having shat my pants for 48 hours awaiting (thankfully negative) HIV-test results after mongering recklessly for a week in BKK some years ago, I swore I'd never again go bareback with a working girl, and, miraculously, I've kept than promise so far. 

9) 6:00 a.m. to 2:00 p.m. is the dead time in Thailand for a monger, and an excellent time to do non-mongering things. 

Non mongering things such as sleeping is what old Tom Tit does between 6am and 2pm, folks.

10) Treat the ladies like a gentleman and they will reward you ten-fold.

Again, generally true. Of course, some birds are prone to behave in a rather, ahem, unpredictable way, but you can't win 'em all.

Tom Tit

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8 hours ago, Tom Tit said:

2) Don't drink heavily when you are out mongering,  you tend to make poor choices.

Ah. Yes. True. I do try. Fail often. All my major mongering mess-ups have occurred while shitfaced, right enough.

@Tom Tit Story time?

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JeremyS

Deano, thanks for deleting the double post. 

1 hour ago, blueforever25 said:

@Tom Tit Story time?

Oh, I have lots to tell. Most of them true. 

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Here's a strange story. 
 
About 10 years ago, I was coming out of the Villa Market on Soi 11 in BKK. Along the corridor which leads pedestrians out of the building, there was a row of third-rate massage parlors, usually after-market ladies, some ladyboys, not really my thing. I would often go to the market because I always stayed in a hotel with a kitchen and I needed the usual supplies. I usually ignored the ladies trying to solicit me but this one day at one of the shops there was an absolute stunner. She was very shy and demure and held a sign offering massages and the prices. I stopped and began to talk with her, and agreed to a massage. The massage area in the shop was horrific, just a small space barely enough room for two people. This was only her second day on the job she told me, I was her second customer. Her massage skills were poor, but she did try hard to please and then we just started talking. She said she was 19 years old and had just arrived a few weeks ago in BKK from up north near the border with Burma and had a job lined up in a teak wood business but it wouldn't start for another month. Needing money, she decided to try massage and the shop hired her. 
 
"You want special?" She asked, after about 30 minutes into the massage. I replied in the affirmative and then asked her if I could buy her out for the day. She didn't understand the concept. I explained to her that in many parlors you can buy a lady out for 24 hours. She didn't think it was possible. So we skipped the "special" and I got dressed and went out to talk to the mamasan and explained what I wanted to do. The mamasan was also perplexed at my request. She was a tough little Thai lady and when I finally was able to communicate what I wanted, she asked, "how much you pay me?"I said 5000 bhat and she happily agreed. I told my new friend to get dressed in street clothes and off we went. I decided to get some dinner so we went out and she related a remarkable story. 
 
When she was 15 years old, her father had a serious business debt to a rich man which he could not repay. So his father lent her to this man and she would be a servant in his household until her 18th birthday. I told her that I thought that was horrible. She was surprised by my reaction. 
 
"Oh no, I very proud to do this for my family, very proud." Which again was a reminder that Thais think very differently from westerners and hold different values. 
 
"Did you have to have sex with him?" She insisted that they did not, and part of the deal was she was to go to school during the day and she completed high school. The other part of the deal was that the man would arrange a job for her in BKK after her 18th birthday. She was allowed to return to her family for one week a year. There was a name for the arrangement, but I can't recall what it was. The rich man was Chinese. 
 
"So he never touched you?" 
 
"No, he a good man," she said. Whether that was actually true or not, I have no idea but I tended to believe her. 
 
After the arrangement was over on her 18th birthday, she returned to her family, the debt was cancelled and she worked on the family farm for a year. She had left the farm and arrived in BKK only a few weeks before I met her but there was some problem with the teak job, but she expected to start soon. 
 
She and I went up to a rooftop bar and sat and drank cocktails and she told me that this was the first time she had ever been to a nice restaurant. She had never had a cocktail before, had only drank alcohol once before and had never been in an airplane, the thought of which scared her to death. I was smitten. She was very beautiful, light skin, large natural breasts for a Thai lady, I would judge her model quality and later that evening we went back to my hotel room (Fraser Suites) and had great sex all night long, which we both enjoyed. She was not at all shy in bed which made me wonder a little, but I didn't really care. 
 
I asked her, being 19, when did she lose her virginity? She told me that when she worked for the rich Chinese man, there were many servants in the home, and she fell in love with his driver, who was a Thai man and he was the one  who took her virginity. When the rich Chinese man found out that they were lovers, he fired the driver and threatened to tell her father, but he never did. She seemed to think the possibility of her father being told she having sex was more horrible than any other aspect of the odd arrangement. 
 
I rarely allow myself to fall for a working girl but I fell for her. The next morning she went back to the shop. I had to leave BKK for India for business later that day and I was back the following week. I bought her out again and we spent the evening on the CP river having dinner in a riverboat cruise out of the Shangri-La hotel. The evening was magical and the next morning she returned to her shop. We traded emails because soon I had to return home and  I decided I would make a serious attempt to have a relationship with her. However, when I got home and emailed her, none of my emails were ever returned. I tried her phone number and that didn't work either. I realized that perhaps she didn't feel the same way about me and just dismissed the entire matter from my mind, oh well. 
 
I returned to BKK a few months later and immediately went to the shop and the same tough little mamasan was there and she told me my friend had quit and left to take another job, and they didn't know where she was. Bummer. 
 
"I have many other lady, very good, you want?" I politely declined and walked away. 
 
Amazing Thailand indeed. 

Once when strolling along Soi 11 in BKK, a tip 

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On 18/03/2020 at 22:55, JeremyS said:

Nope, it's one long list of most of the BKK massage parlors. Most of the links are active and work. Just wanted to help others out. In fact, there should be a BKK thread on this website, or maybe there is, and I just haven't seen it. 

There is a bangkok addicts forum, which I think, would very like some new posts. Its not that busy than in here but all BKK topics over there

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Posted (edited)
13 hours ago, JeremyS said:
Here's a strange story. 
 
About 10 years ago, I was coming out of the Villa Market on Soi 11 in BKK. Along the corridor which leads pedestrians out of the building, there was a row of third-rate massage parlors, usually after-market ladies, some ladyboys, not really my thing. I would often go to the market because I always stayed in a hotel with a kitchen and I needed the usual supplies. I usually ignored the ladies trying to solicit me but this one day at one of the shops there was an absolute stunner. She was very shy and demure and held a sign offering massages and the prices. I stopped and began to talk with her, and agreed to a massage. The massage area in the shop was horrific, just a small space barely enough room for two people. This was only her second day on the job she told me, I was her second customer. Her massage skills were poor, but she did try hard to please and then we just started talking. She said she was 19 years old and had just arrived a few weeks ago in BKK from up north near the border with Burma and had a job lined up in a teak wood business but it wouldn't start for another month. Needing money, she decided to try massage and the shop hired her. 
 
"You want special?" She asked, after about 30 minutes into the massage. I replied in the affirmative and then asked her if I could buy her out for the day. She didn't understand the concept. I explained to her that in many parlors you can buy a lady out for 24 hours. She didn't think it was possible. So we skipped the "special" and I got dressed and went out to talk to the mamasan and explained what I wanted to do. The mamasan was also perplexed at my request. She was a tough little Thai lady and when I finally was able to communicate what I wanted, she asked, "how much you pay me?"I said 5000 bhat and she happily agreed. I told my new friend to get dressed in street clothes and off we went. I decided to get some dinner so we went out and she related a remarkable story. 
 
When she was 15 years old, her father had a serious business debt to a rich man which he could not repay. So his father lent her to this man and she would be a servant in his household until her 18th birthday. I told her that I thought that was horrible. She was surprised by my reaction. 
 
"Oh no, I very proud to do this for my family, very proud." Which again was a reminder that Thais think very differently from westerners and hold different values. 
 
"Did you have to have sex with him?" She insisted that they did not, and part of the deal was she was to go to school during the day and she completed high school. The other part of the deal was that the man would arrange a job for her in BKK after her 18th birthday. She was allowed to return to her family for one week a year. There was a name for the arrangement, but I can't recall what it was. The rich man was Chinese. 
 
"So he never touched you?" 
 
"No, he a good man," she said. Whether that was actually true or not, I have no idea but I tended to believe her. 
 
After the arrangement was over on her 18th birthday, she returned to her family, the debt was cancelled and she worked on the family farm for a year. She had left the farm and arrived in BKK only a few weeks before I met her but there was some problem with the teak job, but she expected to start soon. 
 
She and I went up to a rooftop bar and sat and drank cocktails and she told me that this was the first time she had ever been to a nice restaurant. She had never had a cocktail before, had only drank alcohol once before and had never been in an airplane, the thought of which scared her to death. I was smitten. She was very beautiful, light skin, large natural breasts for a Thai lady, I would judge her model quality and later that evening we went back to my hotel room (Fraser Suites) and had great sex all night long, which we both enjoyed. She was not at all shy in bed which made me wonder a little, but I didn't really care. 
 
I asked her, being 19, when did she lose her virginity? She told me that when she worked for the rich Chinese man, there were many servants in the home, and she fell in love with his driver, who was a Thai man and he was the one  who took her virginity. When the rich Chinese man found out that they were lovers, he fired the driver and threatened to tell her father, but he never did. She seemed to think the possibility of her father being told she having sex was more horrible than any other aspect of the odd arrangement. 
 
I rarely allow myself to fall for a working girl but I fell for her. The next morning she went back to the shop. I had to leave BKK for India for business later that day and I was back the following week. I bought her out again and we spent the evening on the CP river having dinner in a riverboat cruise out of the Shangri-La hotel. The evening was magical and the next morning she returned to her shop. We traded emails because soon I had to return home and  I decided I would make a serious attempt to have a relationship with her. However, when I got home and emailed her, none of my emails were ever returned. I tried her phone number and that didn't work either. I realized that perhaps she didn't feel the same way about me and just dismissed the entire matter from my mind, oh well. 
 
I returned to BKK a few months later and immediately went to the shop and the same tough little mamasan was there and she told me my friend had quit and left to take another job, and they didn't know where she was. Bummer. 
 
"I have many other lady, very good, you want?" I politely declined and walked away. 
 
Amazing Thailand indeed. 

Once when strolling along Soi 11 in BKK, a tip 

If you were smitten, other people also have been before you. Heck, the Thai driver surely was. So, you were just a ONS for her. Working or non-working girl, they all seem to have plenty of options to go around. Also, life with you is probably not something she aspires for. Many girls genuinely want to stick to what they know, a regular job, a regular life. The special arrangements on the side are just for the money. Anything beyond that is not practical for the average girl, I think that's why a lot of people look for good English skills, more westernized tastes but that brings about a territory of it's own.

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JeremyS
4 hours ago, kingdrogo said:

If you were smitten, other people also have been before you. Heck, the Thai driver surely was. So, you were just a ONS for her. Working or non-working girl, they all seem to have plenty of options to go around. Also, life with you is probably not something she aspires for. Many girls genuinely want to stick to what they know, a regular job, a regular life. The special arrangements on the side are just for the money. Anything beyond that is not practical for the average girl, I think that's why a lot of people look for good English skills, more westernized tastes but that brings about a territory of it's own.

I don't disagree. 

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Bobson VaGene

If there's one phrase to learn how to say properly in Thailand it's ไม่เอาครับ: mái ao kráp - No Thank you. Even if you have to say it 2-3 times Girls you aren't interested in and ladyboys will leave you alone. 

If possible try to find out if a girl goes upstairs or back to loom before buying a drink.

If you're not so mobile due to age, medical condition or even frequently being drunk or hungover stay right nearby the action. Having to constantly dodge traffic and traverse uneven foot paths is my least favourite part of Pattaya even though I'm able bodied and don't drink much.

Even once this virus thing is history, I'd still recommend using masks. Given the signiture scent of Pattaya is Exhaust smoke Soi dogs and Durian & the heavy pollution in BKK it makes sense to me at least.

Bring eye drops from home - a prescription is needed to buy them in LoS

If you like the bars in Nana Plaza it's wise to stay nearby - a large number of girls only wanted to use a nearby ST room in NEP, saying Sofitel/Ruamchitt area "Too far" despite assurances I'd tip them taxi money.

If hitting Thermae I'd get there by 9, 10 at the latest. By 11pm the best girls were taken, Asian only or charging 3500 Baht ST while at 9pm I was getting good talent for 2500 ST.

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QuotaMan

Good list for discussion points.

The thing about #7 and negotiating upfront, in theory I agree particularly in light of how nothing is guaranteed these days. These days it's come to the point that nothing is guaranteed in Pattaya pay for pleasure. Some girls don't do bareback blowjobs and some might not even want to do it at all, some girls don't like to kiss, the list goes on and on. I think it goes without saying that if you have a particular sexual activity you prefer like anal, or you are deadbeat on kissing, it behooves you to settle that before barfining her, not going to the room and then finding out she doesn't like or want to do what you want leading to frustration and conflicts. This is the reality in Pattaya.

But personally I don't negotiate anything except for the girl's fee. I don't really have any unusual requests, just like simple kissing and boom boom. Those things I try to get a feel for her during the vetting process and go from there.

 

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