Anyone getting very little out of sex

[just hanging]

28 minutes ago, stinkypoo said:

Same problem.  Pretty much if I don't finish in the first 5 minutes it just turns into pump-into-exhaustion or limp-dick.  100% psychological.  Quitting porn didn't help!

Going to try cardio and supplements.

the only supplement you need is Vitamin V

[Biennial]

On 3/30/2017 at 09:44, tobeornottobe said:

To be more specific . Is anyone finding it very hard to cum . I barfined this absolute smoking hot 22 year old last night and I just couldn't cum inside her . The reality is my problem should be not being able to last long enough with a girl this hot . I have a fair idea what's causing it and it's a combination of things 

 

1. I'm very overweight at 21 stone 

2. Because I'm overweight I take cialis 

3. I watch porn and masterbate much too often causing death grip 

 

The not being able to cum inside the girls has made me feel meh about pattaya in general . I'm. Just wondering if I lost the weight stopped watching porn mastebating and stopped the ed pills would my experience with a hot thai girl bouncing on my knob be a whole lot better 

You know what you need to do. You have listed it.

Lose weight, stop masturbating. Watching porn and taking Cialis, well I do that, so can't criticize.

But build up your libido and make sure the fucking is a well-anticipated event. If you're fucking every 5 minutes your dick will get tired of it. Duh...

 

 

 

 

[Biennial]

And fitness will enhance your sexual experiences. Try running. Edge back into it. It's difficult, but you will become addicted. And it really enhances endurance and enjoyment in the bedroom.

 

[stinkypoo]

44 minutes ago, just hanging said:

the only supplement you need is Vitamin V

Viagra, Cialis, Kamagra all work but those boners don't feel natural. I'll be using those one day, but not until ive tried other methods

[feelus]

I think its easy to get burnt out from too much sex and this may be what the OP is experiencing. When this happens, you can very easily become jaded and lose interest in sex or even women in general. Like others have said, a recommendation would be to abstain from sex for awhile. Cut ties to porn/masturbation, i.e no PMO. After a week or two (if you can last this long) you will get your Desire back and together with it your lust for sex.

[MassageMaven]

On 3/31/2017 at 01:25, Shaggydog67 said:

I think Old Scratch has hit it on the head - low T can be part of a hormone cascade that predisposes you to deposit fat & have a bunch of health issues.

If u have already had kids & no plans for more you might want to consider getting a testosterone prescription.

I got quite a high dose with an aromatase inhibitor over a year ago & haven't looked back - feeling 20 years younger & way more active.

Before you did the testosterone    did you get tested for low T?    What were the results?   Personally, I am feeling like this guy but I got my T tested and it tested   100 above the highest = The TEST must have been FUCKED UP!

Sounds like you have been on the T for a while so have you experienced any  side effects?  How bad?

[JKam]

OP I know what you mean and I have a suspicion I might have some similar issues in my forthcoming trip. 

If I drink even a small amount I enjoy fucking a lot less. I don't know why really but it makes me Mr floppy or makes it so I can never reach the vinegar strokes. I had a strange heart flutter the last time I took Kamagra so I will be very careful with that this year. I mean I've taken it loads but I don't want to take any unnecessary risks.

I'm 120kg (possibly more). I would like to lose weight and will try to take my 3 week trip this year to be good to myself. Food, boom boom, walk n swim. Keep the beers to a minimum (I'm really not sure how well I'll do at that).

I had got down to 107kg before my last trip to Pattaya. Unfortunately being fitter and being able to drink more as a result was not helpful for keeping the lbs off. Then returning to the UK at the holidays. Fuck it's annoying.

[Shaggydog67]

2 hours ago, MassageMaven said:

Before you did the testosterone    did you get tested for low T?    What were the results?   Personally, I am feeling like this guy but I got my T tested and it tested   100 above the highest = The TEST must have been FUCKED UP!

Sounds like you have been on the T for a while so have you experienced any  side effects?  How bad?

Yes I had low T when I did the test with my endocrinologist, can't remember exactly the numbers, think free T was 11 or something, they do bloods 3 times to confirm it. I found a topical application of bioidentical suited me better than the injections.

If you have ruled out T being low then you probably need to look elsewhere as you will have no benefits from getting it, even if you could...

[HenryTO]

My issue is that I tend to finish pretty fast. With most ladies defining ST as 'one cum' I feel like it's a waste of money for a few minutes of pleasure. Should I take some pills to make sure I last longer? If I do, what's the best option in Pattaya - effectiveness, price, etc.

[Scuba+]

My issue is that I tend to finish pretty fast. With most ladies defining ST as 'one cum' I feel like it's a waste of money for a few minutes of pleasure. Should I take some pills to make sure I last longer? If I do, what's the best option in Pattaya - effectiveness, price, etc.

Viagra, Kamagra, Sidegra etc can make it harder to cum so for you its a bonus. Sidegra from a pharmacy should be 180 baht for 4x100mg. Some sell as high as 400. Half a tablet is fine. Guys would pay to be more premature

 

[Itsgat]

Having tried many options for sex, gender, time etc. My view would be to forget about ST as inevitably they will try to get you to cum asap then, jump up, go to the bathroom, wash, gargle and shower and leave you with a quick, cold feeling/experience. It may be 50% or a 100% dearer for LT but 200% better. I'm not sure that the enhancing drugs would be my first choice.

The biggest downside of LT is lock your stuff away just in case. My own personal view is that women who are prepared to stay LT are more likely to be of the gf/caring type. In your case to last longer maybe you could have a preamble before the main event which you will not get with ST.  Another positive of LT is occasionally you meet someone who you get on with and LT can run into a few days.  

[vimto66]

On 10/21/2017 at 07:14, HenryTO said:

My issue is that I tend to finish pretty fast. With most ladies defining ST as 'one cum' I feel like it's a waste of money for a few minutes of pleasure. Should I take some pills to make sure I last longer? If I do, what's the best option in Pattaya - effectiveness, price, etc.

There are some ED drugs that contain an ingredient called dapoxetene,its to stop you cumming as quickly/premature ejaculation,kamagra make a tablet called `kamagra p-force` that contains it,dont know if you can get these in Pattaya though!

I believe Black ant king which you can get in Pattaya contains this too,or so i recently read!

[dbw]

Usually low testosterone or low or high estrogen will effect ability to get a erection. Prolactin levels often effect ability to orgasim.  These are raised by anti psychotics and some antidepressants.  Losing weight and exercising is a imperative, not just for you but all of us.  

[plahgat]

On ‎2017‎-‎10‎-‎23 at 23:31, vimto66 said:

There are some ED drugs that contain an ingredient called dapoxetene,its to stop you cumming as quickly/premature ejaculation,kamagra make a tablet called `kamagra p-force` that contains it,dont know if you can get these in Pattaya though!

I believe Black ant king which you can get in Pattaya contains this too,or so i recently read!

http://www.pattaya-addicts.com/forum/topic/320709-testosterone/?page=3&tab=comments#comment-4279256

[vimto66]

4 hours ago, plahgat said:

http://www.pattaya-addicts.com/forum/topic/320709-testosterone/?page=3&tab=comments#comment-4279256

Thats the one!

[vincent law]

My libido usually go down south when in Patt. Theres something about that damn city that affect me. I can only manage to  average one shot a day. Two shot a day and  I need at least  two days to recover both physically and mentally. It is so bad that I have sometimes refuse sex from my LT girls. 

I have had girls including my non-p4p ex girlfriend  question my sexuality. 

And I am still in my early 30.

I contribute this to years of fapping which mess me up mentally. Now I have stop for good. 

 

[Macawber]

On 06/07/2017 at 20:50, Aussie Traveller said:

In the last 5 months I have lost 25 kilos and feel fantastic it has changed the sex life i really do feel like a new person. It is not an easy task but if you can find the motivation it is truely a rewarding experience. I have been some where between 105 and115 kgs since my late teens, yesterday weighed in at 79 kgs. I hope you can find what it takes to get it done you will never regret it.

 

 

 

25 kg in 5 months ... that's pretty impressive. Any chance you could PM me your weight loss/ fitness plan?

[tt2008]

A simple way to lose weight is to eat less calories.

A typical man needs 2500 a day. If you aim for about 2000 a day you will lose weight over time.

No need to worry about fancy diets, you can eat healthy normal food and stick within 2000 a day.

Look at what you like to eat now, keep the low calorie items and scrap the high calorie ones (typically, high in sugar, sweets, chocolates, fast food etc) sadly wine and beer have quite a few calories!

Most foods have the calories on the labels. Stuff that doesn't have labels like fruit/veg fast food etc you can easily get off the internet - see link below

A good brisk walk of an hour a day if you can do that will give you back about 400 calories so you can have a couple more beers....(approx 3 Chang bottles)

Expect it to take a few months to lose the kgs. Normally the diets that get it off fast, mean you put it back on easily. Better slow and steady to let the body adjust.

If you want to be anal about it, so to speak, there are plenty of phone apps to track your calories and they have all major foods built in including fast food chain stuff - example is myfitnesspal

I'm not saying this works for everyone, but it works for me and is simple and cost free.

http://www.myfitnesspal.com/food/calorie-chart-nutrition-facts

 

[Rocketboy]

On ‎3‎/‎31‎/‎2017 at 13:13, kakebur said:

My problem is condoms. I can pound away for hours but i hardly cum.

sometimes i have to wank myself off in the girls mouth which isnt bad at all.

Same with me rarely can cum in a condom. I always tell the girls this and they always finish me off with BBBJCIM, which feels much better to me than cumming in a condom. Especially if they know what they are doing! Yea, and I watch lots of porn! 555

[Rocketboy]

On 5/23/2017 at 22:33, Jonjon34 said:

I've heard of this recently on a tedx talk...it's called porn induced erectile dysfunction (PIED) can't stay hard Long enough to achieve orgasm when with a real partner but works when masturbating to porn... try giving up porn for 90days this will allow your brain to reboot then use the spare time that you used to spend on surfing porn sites and jacking off to exercise or learn a musical instrument. Anyway if you're interested you can watch the tedx talk on YouTube it's called the great porn experiment. Hope you can beat this bump in the road soon and enjoy pattaya again!

Just watched it, very interesting points.