Anyone getting very little out of sex

[JABL]

he just needs to re-engineer his brain -lay of porn and masturbation for about 3 months.

 

these also would 'add' to the above

use thin condoms

drink plenty of water 

ease of the booze

get fit/ active  - just get the body moving

 

then look for some healthy supplements 

 

[keepitfun]

I agree with all the "lose weight " comments.  I've lost 10kgs since January and feel great.  Probably another 10 to go.

Also on the condoms...get ones that fit.  Trying to cum in a tiny thai condom is next to impossible for me.

Finally, find a more mature experienced (but fit lady) she'll have you away faster than any spinner.

[chris2004]

Taking Viagra is a problem for me, it makes it very hard to cum but without it very hard to get hard !!

[Jonjon34]

I've heard of this recently on a tedx talk...it's called porn induced erectile dysfunction (PIED) can't stay hard Long enough to achieve orgasm when with a real partner but works when masturbating to porn... try giving up porn for 90days this will allow your brain to reboot then use the spare time that you used to spend on surfing porn sites and jacking off to exercise or learn a musical instrument. Anyway if you're interested you can watch the tedx talk on YouTube it's called the great porn experiment. Hope you can beat this bump in the road soon and enjoy pattaya again!

[Buttviking]

Get in shape, eat well, sleep well, not too much alcohol etc

I am a total porn addict myself, before a LOS trip I usually stay off the x-rated stuff and no spanking the monkey for 2 weeks.

[jerrygarcia]

25 minutes ago, Buttviking said:

Get in shape, eat well, sleep well, not too much alcohol etc

I am a total porn addict myself, before a LOS trip I usually stay off the x-rated stuff and no spanking the monkey for 2 weeks.

 

Every time I don't jerk off for 3 or 4 days I get terrible blue ball pains that don't go away.  Jerking off is the only remedy.

[Buttviking]

14 minutes ago, jerrygarcia said:

 

Every time I don't jerk off for 3 or 4 days I get terrible blue ball pains that don't go away.  Jerking off is the only remedy.

Rubbing one out once a day or so is a healthy practice. Just suggesting that reducing the frequency before a patts trip or another special occation can build some energy. Once every 4 days for a while might work too, depending on the usual regimen lol 

 

[happy888]

Tuk Tik will sort you out...if you're lucky

[MikeT]

I recently went ST but could not finish... Now it could be because it was the first time using a condom in over 6 months (have a gf i can just BB) or maybe i was too drunk.. but its really frustrating because previously i could finish within 10 minutes at least.... It could also be from masturbating from what I hear. Anyway i guess ill try a diff condom next time... But as others have said i think alot of it is mental even though i have a gf i like to jerk off to porn, i felt like my last ST session even though she was smoking hot my mind wasnt in the right place as it used to be (kind of like i wasnt as excited as the last year here... maybe thats testosterone)

[Buddy Edgewood]

Yep, lose some weight, get some exercise, cut down on the drinking, limit the wanking and you'll be amazed how your sex life improves.  I know that all four tasks are a challenge, so set yourself some realistic goals and don't give up!  If you need help, talk to your doctor, join a gym and get a personal trainer.  Believe me, you'll love the results and feel so much better about yourself - which translates into a much more enjoyable sexy-time.

By the way, ED pills only help with getting wood, not the Desire or the orgasm part.

[tobeornottobe]

In theory how good would sex be with a 20 year old sexy Thai girl  if I didn't wank or have sex for 6 months.  Cut out the open and lost all the weight? 

[vimto66]

17 hours ago, tobeornottobe said:

In theory how good would sex be with a 20 year old sexy Thai girl  if I didn't wank or have sex for 6 months.  Cut out the open and lost all the weight? 

About 10 seconds good!

[noself]

The problem is your not having sex .
Your just using another person to masturbate you

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[Mognam]

Maybe get the girl to put a finger up your bum.  massage the prostrate while you pound away.

[Mognam]

On 30/04/2017 at 5:11 AM, Cheetos said:

i never thought of trying the finger up the bum thing.  Do you mean put the finger up my bum or her bum?

 

both at the same time if you can't decide/

[gummy]

On ‎31‎/‎03‎/‎2017 at 0:50 AM, william77 said:

Try fucking a Thai porn star with silicone tits. I bet you come pretty fast. Personally I need silicone to get off or else I end up just jerking off on her face. 

Same but only if they are over 600 ccs

[Aussie Traveller]

In the last 5 months I have lost 25 kilos and feel fantastic it has changed the sex life i really do feel like a new person. It is not an easy task but if you can find the motivation it is truely a rewarding experience. I have been some where between 105 and115 kgs since my late teens, yesterday weighed in at 79 kgs. I hope you can find what it takes to get it done you will never regret it.

 

 

 

[Chubzilla]

Yes, girls who I barfine definitely get very little out of sex. 

[HappyGoLuckyUSA]

I believe one of the side effects of Cialis is that it does make it harder to cum...get harder last longer...

[Scuba+]

Sex can get mechanical and you can get jaded with it. I've past that stage, i now am much more selective, needs to feel totally right otherwise i don't bother. I also rarely use Sidegra now, it makes it harder to cum which ends up distracting you from enjoying it

[Bartle]

On 30/03/2017 at 10:44 PM, tobeornottobe said:

1. I'm very overweight at 21 stone 

2. Because I'm overweight I take cialis 

3. I watch porn and masterbate much too often causing death grip 

 

Porn is a huge cause of erectile disfunction.

I hope you are barebacking for maximum sensation. Try plugging one in the read for a bit of extra tightness.

[just hanging]

getting little out of sex?  damn, I get nothing, not one girl giving me money, but I have to give them money so they get someone out of sex

[medie3val]

Try going slower. Just jack-hammering away destroys sensation. Go slow and actually feel it. 

[PatsGuy]

I need to find a girl that I can connect with in some way or another.. I much prefer girl next door types to the super sluts.. 

I tend to shag the girls in Pattaya at about 7 am in the morning, which is 10 am local time back home.  So before I go to los I exercise at 10 am every day to make sure that I am at my peak at that time for when I am there.  I also change my sleep patterns to be in rhythm ahead of time.

I get performance issues if I feel the girl is totally disinterested in anything other then watching TV.

[stinkypoo]

Same problem.  Pretty much if I don't finish in the first 5 minutes it just turns into pump-into-exhaustion or limp-dick.  100% psychological.  Quitting porn didn't help!

Going to try cardio and supplements.