First time and scared

[Pratt]

hi guys i end up my pattaya holiday but now i m feeling paranoia about the *uck which i had in pattaya . Here is my story

i met with a girl atTony's whose name is Ada and had a boom boom but while we r *ucking anal the condom got broken and i shocked then i stopped *ucking so i didnt come after feeling that shock . I asked her as if she s having HIV test periodically or not. She told me not to worry about it because she never been *ucked without using condom and having that test periodically. After her reply i didnt satisfied and took her to the memorial hospital to have the test . The result was negative but i scared so much and i m still scaring about it. Should i worry about it thnx.

[Bastos60]

hi guys i end up my pattaya holiday but now i m feeling paranoia about the *uck which i had in pattaya . Here is my story

i met with a girl atTony's whose name is Ada and had a boom boom but while we r *ucking anal the condom got broken and i shocked then i stopped *ucking so i didnt come after feeling that shock . I asked her as if she s having HIV test periodically or not. She told me not to worry about it because she never been *ucked without using condom and having that test periodically. After her reply i didnt satisfied and took her to the memorial hospital to have the test . The result was negative but i scared so much and i m still scaring about it. Should i worry about it thnx.

 

Have yourself tested!

 

After six months you will know if you have HIV or not.

[Siam Sam]

She told me not to worry about it because she never been *ucked without using condom and having that test periodically.

 

Well that's that sorted then. The chances of catching HIV from one unprotected sexual encounter probably run into thousands to one, but get checked (after a 12 week wait) for peace of mind and then another check after 6 months to be 100% sure. Your local GUM clinic will do the tests for free. Don't worry about it, shit happens.

Edited December 23, 2007 by Pharang_bah

[LongPlay]

Bastos60 is right. But no need to test now. It will take 6 months to be sure. Just so you understand, you have access to the net. Do some research on this topic. You will find that normal straight sex, as long as no open wounds are on YOU or your working member, you have a very tiny chance of any issues. Now, as for the other problem STD's there are meds, which you could just buy, and take just to make sure you dont contract Gon. or Syf. These two diseases can infect you even without a break in the skin. BBBj's and Straight sex are much lower risk, BUT NOT ZERO, to the other diseases.

 

OH by the way..... NEVER believe a TG when asking questions like that. They are preprogrammed to give you the answer you want to hear. What ever answer you get is only a chance of being correct. Better not to even ask. Assume the worst, and make the best protective measures you can.

 

A good GENTLE wash up is first, with an anti bacterial soap is a good start. But what ever you do, be gentle. Dont scrub until you irritate the skin and CAUSE a minor abrasion or cut... that would give infection a place to get in.

 

Next time, get your condoms from home. they will be better quality, fit better, and give you more peace of mind.

 

Good luck....

[ginseng]

I agree with Long Play you cannot rely on what a BG tells you about practicing safe sex. I realize no matter what people post here you will be scouring the internet for info and worrying yourself sick about having HIV or not. Unfortunately you are in for a painful wait. I've heard getting tested as soon as 1 month after possible exposure is highly reliable 3 months almost certain and 6 months completely certain. I know how it feels and it feels like shit!

[Pratt]

i controled my penis and no wounds no cuts on it and while having sex i didnt come so i quess there is no liquid transfer after all i had a test for her in hospital and she is negative before going to hospital according to my insistences on having test she got angry with me about not believing her. After the day we had the test she was making fun off it that i didnt beleive her anyway. She still insisting on having a second test on her she is sure about herself but ı m not.

[LongPlay]

Well with her tested now, you can feel a lot better. Still not 100%, but then NOTHING in life is 100%. In a couple of months or so, go get tested just to make yourself feel better. But from the face of it, I doubt you have much to worry about.

 

As for the other STD's out there.... you can see a doc when you get home if you find some symptoms. OR.. you can do as i always do. Day before I leave LOS, I get the best two Antibiotics currently out there for other STD's ( remember you can get some of these bad things from BBBJ's ) and start on them before I get on the plane. One week later, and always before any real symptoms would develop, they are gone, whether there or not....

 

Currently the most conservative docs have increased the dose load for zythromax from 1 gram to 2 grams, all in one go. and to make sure Chlamydias is not hiding in the NON thinking head, a dose of one of the "floxacins" like Ofloxacin or Cirpo... any way, that is my program..... Good luck with this, I know it works on the mind..... Most all of us have been in those shoes....

[ginseng]

Getting her tested should offer you some relief and does lower the odds you've gotten HIV but there is a window period of 3 months where anyone can test negative but still be able to transmit the virus. You simply cannot be certain until you yourself have gotten tested 6+ months out or the one you had sex with does. However it is unlikely that you've caught anything. Also you cumming or not only increases her risk. The risk from fucking someone in the ass (you to her) is that there could have been small tears in her ass and the virus could have been transmitted into your urethra or any abrasions you may have had. Not trying to be a scaremonger but you should know the facts.

[Pratt]

assume if there are small tears in her ass there must be some wounds on my penis after having sex i also checked my penis there is no wounds no bleeding or something like that

[Bastos60]

assume if there are small tears in her ass there must be some wounds on my penis after having sex i also checked my penis there is no wounds no bleeding or something like that

 

Dude, you really think you see any abrasions after the deed in her ass on your penis?

 

It is under the foreskin what you have to protect and the urethra.

 

Ever examined your gums when brushing your teeth? Even healthy gums have small abrasians after brushing.

[Pratt]

there is no abrasions because when ı realised the condom is broken immediately i quit fucking then i immediately controlled my penis i don t know i m so stressed...ı cant wait 3 months

[Siam Sam]

there is no abrasions because when ı realised the condom is broken immediately i quit fucking then i immediately controlled my penis i don t know i m so stressed...ı cant wait 3 months

 

You got no choice in the matter pal.

[Dr.Winston]

there is no abrasions because when ı realised the condom is broken immediately i quit fucking then i immediately controlled my penis i don t know i m so stressed...ı cant wait 3 months

 

Let's look at this mathematically. Imagine the worst scenario, that she was HIV positive. The statistics I have read were about 75 to one against the penetrating partner contracting the virus in a single incidence of unprotected anal sex. How long is a single incidence? let's say 5 minutes. How long were you unprotected because the condom broke. Would you agree 10 seconds is a fair guess? 10 seconds is one thirtieth of one incidence. Multiply 75 by 30 and you reach the odds of 2250 to one against you having contracted the virus from her. And remember this is assuming that she was HIV positive. If she wasn't then you have zero chance of having contracted it from her.

 

I am not trying to be flippant about this. I know too well that HIV is a threat we should all take seriously. I suggest that you read up on the subject and educate yourself to the risks involved then make decisions as to how you want to play it in the future. Of course you should have the test, in the meantime I hope the mathematics are reassuring to you. Mistakes happen, it is what you do in the long term that is likely to make a difference. Good luck.

[Sancho]

I would get checked from a reliable doctor outside Thailand as most of the tests here are questionable, as was said before the Thais tell you what you want to hear, even many doctors.

don't worry theres many an ass bandit in your position !

[deckx]

I would get checked from a reliable doctor outside Thailand as most of the tests here are questionable, as was said before the Thais tell you what you want to hear, even many doctors.

 

not sure who told you that, private healthcare here is above par with anything back at home.

Go to the Bangkok/pattaya international and you can see a specialist in less than 30 minutes., try that back at home.

[Horse box]

Well with her tested now, you can feel a lot better. Still not 100%, but then NOTHING in life is 100%. In a couple of months or so, go get tested just to make yourself feel better. But from the face of it, I doubt you have much to worry about.

 

As for the other STD's out there.... you can see a doc when you get home if you find some symptoms. OR.. you can do as i always do. Day before I leave LOS, I get the best two Antibiotics currently out there for other STD's ( remember you can get some of these bad things from BBBJ's ) and start on them before I get on the plane. One week later, and always before any real symptoms would develop, they are gone, whether there or not....

 

Currently the most conservative docs have increased the dose load for zythromax from 1 gram to 2 grams, all in one go. and to make sure Chlamydias is not hiding in the NON thinking head, a dose of one of the "floxacins" like Ofloxacin or Cirpo... any way, that is my program..... Good luck with this, I know it works on the mind..... Most all of us have been in those shoes....

Do you get these antibiotics over the counter in Pattaya?Are the chemists advise friendly there?

[exe0826]

loads of people get there and a to use condoms after a good piss up,then you end up coming back shitting yourself the best thing to do is get your condoms before you and plenty of its like a game lotto and a big one you just dont know

[JasonL]

Let's look at this mathematically. Imagine the worst scenario, that she was HIV positive. The statistics I have read were about 75 to one against the penetrating partner contracting the virus in a single incidence of unprotected anal sex. How long is a single incidence? let's say 5 minutes. How long were you unprotected because the condom broke. Would you agree 10 seconds is a fair guess? 10 seconds is one thirtieth of one incidence. Multiply 75 by 30 and you reach the odds of 2250 to one against you having contracted the virus from her. And remember this is assuming that she was HIV positive. If she wasn't then you have zero chance of having contracted it from her.

 

I am not trying to be flippant about this. I know too well that HIV is a threat we should all take seriously. I suggest that you read up on the subject and educate yourself to the risks involved then make decisions as to how you want to play it in the future. Of course you should have the test, in the meantime I hope the mathematics are reassuring to you. Mistakes happen, it is what you do in the long term that is likely to make a difference. Good luck.

 

I like this approach... logical, realistic, reasonable and scientific... Do your own research and make your own adult decisions...

 

J.

[native]

your piss hole is an opening to also worry about. take a piss as soon as your done fucking!

[Joz72087]

your piss hole is an opening to also worry about. take a piss as soon as your done fucking!

 

Excellent advice. Even when nailing from the front.

 

Flush them critters out asap!!

[2STonED]

im going 2 my family planning clinic b4 i go 2 stock up on descent condoms,,,dont use there 2nd rate small ballons !

[LongPlay]

Do you get these antibiotics over the counter in Pattaya?Are the chemists advise friendly there?

 

Yes, almost all antibiotics are available over the counter. You usually need to know the exact name of what you want, and a bit of research on the internet will help. many of these meds, have many different names from different countries. But Zithromax and Cirpo are fairly common names, and are well enough known in the community. They also know what you will need them for, and could also offer others.

[Tang]

Dont worry mate this has happened to me on maybe 8 occasions in thailand....I'd suggest next time get some decent lube or some KY jelly from 7/11...the chances of getting hiv from a broken condom are relatively slim...it is far easier to get hepatitus b which is very easily spread...but you can get a 3 dose vaccine for that from your doctor...its worth having in the long run

[Flanders]

my advice to you would be to just wait it out. theres nothing you can do about it so stop worrying! If when you get your test and its bad news, then you can worry and stress and all that. at the moment, your fine. all that matters. LIVE IN THE NOW!!

[lewis]

there is no abrasions because when ı realised the condom is broken immediately i quit fucking then i immediately controlled my penis i don t know i m so stressed...ı cant wait 3 months

 

One good thing is you can not catch aids twice