Ocelot

I'm just messing with ya man as I've done far worse when I was mongering in Thailand(barebacking African girls for one 🙃) but thankful that Prep has been around for awhile and highly effective knowing my current negative status despite my reckless behavior. HIV symptom timelapse can vary though and why you hear guys who show symptoms after only 24-48 hours and the other extreme end of showing no symptoms at all for years which is why testing is so important and preventive measures on mitigating these risks are out there despite it sometimes leading to similar symptoms as you demonstrated 🤪. And yeah *maybe* Nam was just pretending but IMO the way I saw it and I'm sure others as well is that *maybe* she was actually showing you a bit of her "real" self and the facade wore off for that brief moment as you did say that she never saw you look that bad before and it really just sounded like she was concerned for your well being with no nefarious motives behind it. In the end though she's still hardened and like you wrote, I'm sure she's insecure to go with a couple of other mental and emotional issues that she's picked up over the years as a place like Pattaya would change anyone over time and she has to put her "game face" on for her own well being. I will add that while I generally agree with the context of your psychology post, I also feel that you are too harsh on yourself as well as I do get the sense that some(or maybe most) of the girls you are repeating with at least *tolerate* you at the minimum and even just like being with you despite the transactional nature in which you've met them as you aren't THAT old and don't appear THAT disgusting looking or fat or whatever horrid description that you've written about yourself and despite your sometimes "excessive and eccentric" outings with them in the bedroom and while inebriated and on other substances, you overall treat the women pretty fairly all things considered and that counts for something. Who knows though as I've taken a 180 view on these bargirls and feel most of them are decent enough but obviously flawed that guys still need to tread carefully with but that's just me trying not to be so hardened anymore by this wild hobby as it does become a cycle of cynicism if you partake long enough and that's no way to live or see people.

"All precaution with safe sex is out the door here as Nam and I began fucking each other with reckless abandon. After about an hour, I actually finish inside her." "wake her and begin fucking her again. We go hard and fast. This time, I finish in about 15 minutes, inside her again." "I think my dick is about to fall off due to all the tearing and bleeding, but I decide fuck it. I ram the shit out of her in this position and then cum buckets inside her pussy, letting out a guttural grunt." "At one point the condom rips and I continue fucking her still, raw. She loves every moment. " 🫪😬🥳 Yeah I could see why Nam might not have been joking about it being AIDS and Prep does sometimes display the same side effects as HIV as I took a recently expired batch a few years back that got my arms all covered in hives and rashes which freaked me out as well. Lesson learned on following the expiration date and moving to the milder Descovy. Lucky for you that it was only an allergic reaction instead of winning the ultimate lottery while on Prep. On a positive note, Nam actually does seem like a nice person deep down and like you said she is probably not facing or fully admitting to her past trauma and clearly made it worse by being a bargirl and taking in all of the pitfalls of that lifestyle instead of seeking some real professional help to overcome her demons. This applies to Rin and all of your other girls as well to various degrees as mental health is still stigmatized in Thailand My opinion is that Nam probably likes you more then she let's on and obviously is trying to make the fantasy of her being a "good girl living with bad karma" hold true for herself as she's juggling her 'faves' aka Korean and Thai 'bfs' with guys who she is 'friendly' with aka you and probably a few others in your position and her wishy washy and changing attitude throughout this and your past TRs is due to the fact that she is trying to juggle all of these guys while still giving the illusion(for herself mostly) that she's not doing anything wrong because she's a "good girl" which she is deep down albeit VERY flawed. Anyways hope your health issues settle as you did hint at a soi 6 girl upcoming and obviously Rin is preoccupied with Senpai Yippon. She's another one that I can see why you like so much but obviously hardened as well if she has been working as long as you've been hinting at and probably has a lot of past trauma as well if she whimsically blocks and then unblocks you once you met up with her again and even forgot the reason WHY she was angry in the first place. *Side note - I'm actually taking a different tint to your TR as it actually wants me to visit Pattaya again after so many years and I've always felt that VN and the PI were highly overrated for different reasons but that is my own bias at play. I actually want to jump into this *action* again after so many years of not getting kicked while I'm down 🫠😍.

Yep a lot of people put the PI on a pedestal for that "easier" access pekpek while always lavishing the country for their fulsome efficiency in 'English' which while is better then Thailand, it's still basically at a 3rd grade call center level which I guess is better then nothing if someone refuses or doesn't care about learning a country's native language or culture. Retirees probably get the most fulfillment from the PI as they don't really need to worry about work commitments or sometimes even family and friend commitments back home and hence the lack of stable infrastructure, medical care, and services doesn't bother them as much so long as the young pussy is flowing and the San Miguels are still chilled. For younger or at least the less seasoned guys who need to still hustle or actually want to immerse themselves in a new culture and not just go to get their dick and ego stroked, the PI isn't going to be at the top of that person's list especially with what's been going on with the country's power grid recently and worrisome for the future if that younger guy decides to make the PI their main passport destination instead of Thailand or another SE Asian country. https://www.reuters.com/business/energy/philippines-warns-serious-power-cuts-heat-outages-strain-grids-2026-05-14/

Sounds like you ran into a monger's worst fear: A BG meeting their real ideal type of guy while with you. Nam acting the way she did around a typical looking Korean guy doesn't surprise me as you have described her as looking like a "Korean style" girl and the young, Korean guy look and media is popular in Thailand so she probably felt like she was in a Kdrama in how it went down with her flower boy oppa just next door and swooning from her IRL encounter of it happening and meeting her chaebol wangja🤣. I know you keep saying that Nam isn't all that nowadays but from how you keep coming back for her and still arranging quite a bit of your plans around her, it sounds like you still like her immensely or at least crushing on her on a conscious and subconscious level and secretly must have felt a hint of jealousy from never getting that kind of reaction from Nam like the Korean guy did even if you were joking and she has a "bf" already and there's nothing wrong with that. You like who you like and Nam actually never sounded THAT horrible overall (infidelity and truthfulness issues aside) throughout your trips and you're obviously still attracted to her on various levels as well as your other regulars while never getting in too deep (yet?) with any of them so keep doing you and enjoying your time and pleasure with Nam and the others along with anyone new that gives you these feelings in the future. Got a feeling it might be 'her'. The previously supposed "upgrade" over Nam and who you keep pining and hinting towards in this TR. *Secondary guesses of the niece and far out there guesses of Fah or even......Ying😁

There actually are quite a lot of spinners in Dar compared to Mombasa. They seem to be kind of picky though and snotty. Maybe it's because they were in such high demand but the Mzungus and even the Chinese seemed to set their sights on the young and slim ones so a more uphill battle to get them. @The Game 1690 already chimed in on what he paid and that lines up for most of the women who you meet either online or in the bars/clubs with some extreme outliers on either price spectrum depending on how much they "like" you or thinking you are a "vet". English is definitely not Tanzania's strong suit but you can always use google translate and most of the women have some basic understanding though it wouldn't hurt to learn some Swahili as I can speak a bit and it definitely helped with the 'ngono' experience. 😁 Bonus points on Tanzanian women and the people overall being the nicest and chillest I've ever come across if you want to experience a "GFE". *PSA - Be careful on trying any massage parlors there as I was quoted ridiculous amounts in them and the quality wasn't even all that and you have to pay a shitty massage fee regardless if you get the extras or not which I never did. @The Game 1690 Great report mate even if you are just providing mostly pics and vids as those are usually the meat of a TR. Glad to see you made it out there and caught a haul compared to me where I was getting Sharia law thrown in my face. Hope you enjoyed yourself and didn't run into any problems as I ran into a stomach bug which put me out of commission for my remaining time there and left my entire trip's food intake into the toilet.(Dried Fish in Tanzania is highly sus) Maybe Tanzania can be your new stomping grounds if you enjoyed it too much or is Kenya still the bell cow with Pattaya the side quest still? Carry on if you have more to report.

The only nationalities which might give anyone pause are if they are from South Africa and their neighboring countries according to the latest stats. South Africans seem to not really populate the P4P scene in Thailand as most of the Africa women seem to be East Africans with a lot of Madagascar women thrown in whom statistically have higher HIV rates but still lower then South Africans. Getting on Prep and getting any STD related vaccines is always a good practice regardless of which race or ethnicity you sleep with and especially so if you are dealing with any P4P woman. Also while I haven't been in Thailand in years, I remember that the African women in Pattaya were more of the "grizzled vet" variety and if there was a rampant HIV outbreak in Pattaya then it would be easy to trace it back to a very niche population in Patts so I doubt you'll contract anything from them but still better to practice to safe sex regardless. Maybe more doubt if you are trying to finding someone in Bangkok as there seems to be way more there and though they are higher quality and better looking, their rep and sexual status is more up in the air compared to Patts.

Sounds like the excessive talk on substances that shouldn't be in the Kingdom got your post axed. Too bad but it was enjoyable to read and a great lesson for anyone who read it on being careful when running into overly friendly strangers that come onto you all nilly willy. Probably better to apply that more to some of the women since that is who most of the guys here want to encounter anyways. Glad you're safe and still had enough intuition to get out of that situation despite your obviously endangered state and looking forward to reading about who I think you're hinting at and probably going to set off the engagement bell for your TR once again for better or worse..... probably much worse in her case.😁

I'm a newb to your TRs but I've been reading your past ones lately and gotta say that you are quite talented in your storytelling and enthralling in how your shenigans play out. Your whirlwind fling with Nam throughout the TRs was certainly a banger even if the mob sometimes threw rotten tomatoes at you in how it all transpired. Good to know that you've decided to follow through on your trip as more people should just enjoy life and do more of what makes them happy and F anyone else on telling you otherwise as long as it isn't affecting your financial and mental well being. Hope you are recovered from whatever health issue plagued you while there as I'm assuming it has something to do with the dirty Songkran water and the 24/7 splash rave fest to go along with your consistent normal routine of partying, drinking, gorging on food, fucking, etc. that seems to be a staple of your trips and can wear down even the most Herculean of us. Enjoy your ongoing trip and will be following along and hope it turns out great so that you can continue to enjoy Thailand and everything that it offers.

+1 and I would add that more people should get tested if they are at all sexually active with anyone whether P4P or non-P4P(Even moreso on the latter IMO) as self medicating and diagnosing will makes things worse as cases keep popping up about medically resistant Chlymadia and Gonnorrhea strains because of people popping Zpacks like tic tac. Prep is a pretty mature drug these days and if you can get Descovy or it's generic equivalent then all the better as it has fewer side effects then the other drugs but usually in the West you need to be tested every few months to get your prescription renewed anyways so it's a non issue over here while in Thailand, it's cheap enough to get a full screening so why not spend a bit more to have full knowledge of your health status. * Sidenote - Also people should really get their HPV shots as it's really useful and even prevents certain cancers. The new Bexsero vaccine as well too. The Herpes vaccine is in clinical phase 3 trials and "should" be out sometime in 2028 so hopefully another spooky sexual virus that can be eliminated within our lifetimes.

Definitely drives home the stereotype on Isaan women looking more 'homely' and 'rurally cute' then drop dead gorgeous when the war paint is squirted and splashed off during this time. Let's see how much their personality and their GFE actually matters now. 😁 On the plus side the guys on the ground are who they say they are in these photos and they are showing off their rizz with their adonis figures and chiseled youthful faces in their see through vests with the wet sewage infested water glistening off their Chad chin. 🥰

That brick to the head was brutal and even the Thai guys who would normally join in on a farang beatdown were yelling at the ladyboys after that as it seemed liked it crossed a line that even they had to criticize them for it. Still the normal TIT rules apply when it comes to these kind of incidents and yeah some of these ladyboys or any button pushing red light district worker can be annoying and can harass you endlessly until you break but it's still always better to swallow your pride or at least be sober enough to take the hit to the ego and walk away as even if you are in the right, incidents like this can show you what can happen if you escalate it as it's their home turf with their rules on how to handle it. * Side note - That site has some crazy videos on Thailand if you click the tag and basically a clout chaser's wet dream. Always nice to know there is always going to be someone recording these crash outs and cutting/editing the video to perpetuate whatever narrative they want you to see instead of getting to see the full details of the incident. It's no wonder why people need to wear dash and body cams on them 24/7 now.

Looking forward to reading this report as it's been a minute since I've last been back to Pattaya as well and I'm interested to hear about how much it's changed and potentially if it's worth it go back to nowadays over my current preferential excursions. Two things that caught my eye and somes suggestions for you is on the money and itinerary front. 1. Wouldn't it be easier to use Wise or another money transfer service to trickle in your funds so that your aforementioned robbery that happened in the past doesn't reoccur? Maybe carry a highly secure debit card from an established bank to withdraw sparingly from? I'm not Indian and don't live there but from what I've been told and found online that you can also use some of these services and even if the fees might be annoying and potentially high, it'd be a mere pittance for the security that it can provide instead of potentially falling victim to another horrendous robbery of all your funds which would ruin any trip no matter how upbeat and happy someone can be going into it. Just a recommendation though and IMO more of a safety measure when it comes to funds. 2. That is a very thorough itinerary and I understand that your time is very compact but wouldn't Pattaya of all places be enjoyed more by going with the flow as you never know what soi or bar or food stall/restaurant or even woman/new people you stumble onto that could leave an everlasting impression on you? I'm sure the main sois and attractions like LK, WS, 6 are people's go to spots and obviously your newbie friend will want to see those places first and I'm sure he'll enjoy them but wouldn't exploring some of the more offbeaten path bars and some non-mainstream activities/indulgences be just as or even more memorable for you and your friend as you just never know what or who you can find in Pattaya right? Once again just my opinion as you can do Pattaya however way you want. I'm just catching up on how much the city has changed myself and if it has changed so much then personally I would like to change with it as I'm sure you are different as well after being away for so long. Looking forward to reading this TR as I always enjoy reading the experiences of BMs who aren't from the typical Western countries and who aren't what is classified as the "typical farang" mongering in Patts.

Will do as always up for exploring the real side of an African country away from the mzungus. Will put it on my bucket list as several women on Badoo are asking me to go see them from Mbezi beach to Zanzibar to even Arusha for a "date and friendship to lead to something more" 😆 Rafiki indeed.

I'm staying in Oyster Bay in an airbnb which is quite nice and secluded while also being near the action. Just looked up a few massage parlors near me which I will be hitting up either later tonight or tomorrow. I'm staying close to 2 weeks here so I can bide my time. Have fun in Kampala if you do go as while I felt it was the dirtiest and least safe country between the 3 you've visited(potentially), Ugandan women are crazy fun in the bedroom and all around. Can't go wrong with Tanzania though as these women here are just wow with all colors of the rainbow and plus it's low season so the girls should be back on the mainland and most "should" still stick around if you're coming during Easter. It's too bad that I can't get back here that quickly for a turnaround but if you give me an early heads up in the future then perhaps I can arrange something closer to your future dates. Cheers and have fun in Africa.

Great report as I was going through @The Game 1690 report on Tanzania when I came across yours since I'm in Tanzania now. Lots of great detail on Zanzibar in particular which I might plan a day trip out to as while I really have no desire to be surrounded by mzungus in touristy hell, apparently most of the women moved there for this high season and won't be back until March. Trish definitely has a nice beach bum derriere and glad that you enjoyed your time with her as I'm discovering the bar scene in Dar right now and let me just say that I'm in love with the eye candy here. Also it might help that I speak Kidogo Swahili which is much needed and appreciated by the women here as most just speak basic Kiingereza and kind of proud of that. Cheers to this TR and hopefully you come back soon as I'm loving the vibes out here as well as the safety and tranquility of it all.